Should I get back with my ex or date her 20 year old daughter?

[Anonymous]

Your ex

Her daughter

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1 mo

Im not the father to be clear. That would be creepy.

[abc3643]

What's creepy is you even asking this question!

You're "(36-45)". You should have sufficient maturity and experience in human nature to know the answer to this question. But, since you don't, I'll answer it in the hopes that this is a teachable moment for the young among us...

NO, do not get back with the ex and CERTAINLY DO NOT DATE THE DAUGHTER.

OK, now the why... the why which I am shocked that you didn't know or this is just a shitty troll which is definitely exemplative of immaturity.

Imagine you get involved with the daughter. Forgetting about your lapsed ethics and lack of recognition of a conflict of interest, you are definitely creating a conflict of interest and elevated stress level for the daughter. If you had any ethics, you'd know that and not want to subject the girl to that. She might be to young to realize the complexity and conflicting emotions in this because young people don't think in nuanced terms, but someone "(36-45)" should know that and, as the older adult in this situation, you should be mature enough to protect the girl but not getting into a relationship with her.

>>> THE PRIMARY HUMAN DIRECTIVE: OUR JOB ON EARTH IS TO MAKE THE WORLD BETTER AND SAFER FOR THOSE WHO COME AFTER US.

What you are suggesting - dating the daughter - does none of that other than be selfish for yourself and creating a stressful environment for all 3 of you - especially the daughter and, to a large extent, the mother.

In short, none of this is good.

[AgentG111]

Both! Life's short live it up!!

[4ngelic]

Neither. You don't really like either of them if you're asking the question. I also doubt the 20yo would likely want to date a much older man especially who was her mom's ex, who could have maybe even became her stepfather.

[Asker]

I was always good to her.

[Agape93]

So you're not creepy?

"Should I get with an ex from 20 years ago, or her child?" Bruh

[Asker]

Ex from 10 years ago. Both are intrested

[Agape93]

My point stands.

[Agape93]

Except nows worse because you watched the kid as a actual child. Wtf

[Asker]

Yes she's really blossomed into a sexy young woman

[Agape93]

You're one step above a pedophile.

[Asker]

Because I noticed how sweater hamsters have grown?

[Agape93]

Because you just barely waited for a child you fucking knew to become an adult. Barely. Kid can't even fucking drink alcohol yet.

[Agape93]

Fucking pedo ass.

[Asker]

she's grown up and she grown up hot.

[Agape93]

You watched a child grow up and now you want to fuck her. You're one step above a fucking pedo. Period.

[molonski2]

100 % if you have the choice do the daughter for sure , get her in the gym and active at the same time.

Go for it man !

[Mark_Est]

Both are adults and free to choose for themselves.

No moral highground either way.

Then it is down to your personal choice.

[Nikki1989]

This post is not creepy at all.

[Micheal6918]

Get back with your ex or you look for someone else entirely

[Flower7]

Neither. Find a new family to get involved with. Just start fresh.

[LatinaXv7]

I would say neither, getting back with ex while eyeing the daughter is creepy. Dating the daughter — also creepy only because it’s the ex’s daughter.

[AngryCarl3]

These girls appear to be roughly the same age so your story is already phoney baloney.

[LC75LC71]

This could potentially be the first case of AI issuing a restraining order..

[lilBigPotato]

I'm sure you asked them for permission to post their photos here, right? 🙄

[loveslongnails]

Dude, it's already creepy.

[Asker]

Why? Im single. My ex is still hot and her daughter is of age now

[loveslongnails]

What are all your ages?

[Asker]

Im 40, she is 30

[Asker]

Sorry im am 43. She is 38. Her daughter is 20.

[loveslongnails]

So besides just the sex, what do you hope to gain by dating the daughter, because you DID use the term date? You're 23 years her senior, so what do you have in common? We haven't even asked - do either one of them want to date YOU? LOL

[Asker]

she's fertile.

[loveslongnails]

Never mind. This is either a bullshit post and if it's not, you're beyond creepy.

[Anonymous]

Continue to be your daughter's father.🙂

[Asker]

Im not her father

[Opinion Owner]

But at one point you were his father.

[Opinion Owner]

If you want, I can be your son-in-law. Hağhağhağ

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't date either, totally not my type. You have weird taste in women.

[RavVid]

younger is always better

[LiamJHayden]

Avoid all that drama.

[Alex-Snow]

Why can't you have both... it would be fun!

[dudeinohio]

Move on and find someone entirely different

[OlderAndWiser]

Troll much?

[choco-latte]

Date your hand instead, troll

[LatinaXv7]

This is a good comment straight to the point.. love it ! 😊

[sawno]

Why do you assume either one wants you?

[EmmaMary]

Sadly there's one born every minute! 🙂‍↔️

[413kim]

You want her daughter

[Asker]

Yes.

[Wuai201]

Nasty

[MrChinaski]

Neither.

[canamlusciouslad73]

CLUB THE BUXOM YOUNG BABE !!!

[Iron_Man]

Which one do you wanna date?

[Anonymous]

Is she interested in you? How do you know?

[msc545]

date the daughter

[In_Trance]

They're both garg.
Move on

[Anonymous]

Why would you post their pics on here?

[loveyouoak]

Your ex

[Sophiaishere]

How about none

[slatyb]

No, you shouldn't.