Not just an ex-boyfriend but an ex-husband. Divorced for 3 years, not in contact until recently. He has proof of therapy and wants to make amends. That's all the info I think is important here. What do you think? I want to give her the best advice possible.
Depends why it failed.. what happend. .. why did it fail. I don't need the details.
But is he abuse her in the past then don't.. the is the nature of the person and no doctor can cure that.. yes you het it. I don't believe in anger management.
If he cheated.. she can try again.. maybe he is sorry and realize he made a mistake. But they have to work together.. why did he cheat..
Anyway so many reasons it went wrong.. and thus so many solutions if they want to try again.. but they have to workout their problems. Don't hide it under the table.. or it will start again with a lie..
Personally i would not go back to my ex..🤭 i now what she is capable off..
Don’t. Make amends is different than reconciling. She should take it slow before rushing back in/sleeping with him, and treat it like a brand new relationship. They’ll both be very different know. Or should be. If they’re not, it’s not going to work, again
Good luck is all I can say! Bit more information might have helped such as "why did you split in the first place, he had therapy for what" might be a couple useful things to know.
The information you provided is not enough information to really give much advice on. It’s your life and you can do what your please. Trust your gut
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Treat it as a new relationship. Don't think about the past, only the current and the future.
Give him a chance but be careful. In my people make amends and pretend to be nice and then go back to their way. So, be very careful if he tries to hurt her she should back out immediately. nx it's really someone with a strong personality to give second chances.. don't let your guards down though
People don't change easily. It generally takes dire circumstances... as in dire enough to completely overhaul one's life. Unless they've paid a visit to death's door recently, a bad relationship will just go the same way again.
I think it’s important to allow yourself time to confirm that the reasons you separated are no longer relevant.
Sounds like you’ve ready considered it.
My suggestion is maybe gear him out first then go from there. You don’t need to jump into a relationship.
There's not enough info here to give advice unfortunately. Like why did you divorce in the first place. I'd most likely give different advice based on this.
That would depend on why he was in therapy. If it was for physical abuse or violent behavior, I'd tell her to run away for sure. Generally speaking, I think it's going backwards, but each case is different.
i would say no. i mean you can be friends. but trying to get back to relationship status with that history is a no.
Usually the same problems come up, no matter what people do they don’t change and the memories are still there and women always bring things up from the past and never let it go, they just use it as ammo in a fight no matter how long ago it happened
You just better make sure he's changed, otherwise if you try again you'll just redo the same problems that broke you up in the first place.
It's probably a bad idea, but you know him better than we do.
There is insufficient info to provide a good answer.
Seen it a bunch. Use your gut and past experiences. It may not work
Just remember why you two broke up in the first place and remember they're your ex for a reason
do not do it! The same issues that caused the breakup will still be there. people don't change.
I would see if he's changed at all first , remember you guys broke up for a reason
DON'T just DON'T.
Yeah, don't do it.
I would say don’t
Don't go there. No U turns
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