My mum and sister who are both considered empaths have said that i am like them and that i have a very sensitive personality and can pick up on peoples emotions and feels verry strongly, which means that i can be hurt easy, does that mean that i am made to be soft and not very man like, does this make me less attractive and desired for a quality in a man.
Growing up i actually grew up with women the ratio was like 2:7 but i never really had a girlfriend or dated i felt like i was raised in a femine manner, as a kid i got bullied in some ways particularly because i was sensitive and was very reactive i didn't have many genuine friends i was very shy and was actually shy with girls though growing up with mostly women which included a grandma, mum and two sisters who would visit a few times a year along with an auntie who would visit other than that my brother and me spent 18 years with my mum and grandma and didn't get raised to take on masculine roles or to be a "man" though growing up when my "brother in law" married one of my sisters i would be told to man up when i would get upset or if i would give logical reason to something that upsets me. I never got much advice to deal with it.
I felt unlovable and unliked even though my mum would say i had a kind hear and i was very generous with people i only ever felt used and i didn't really fit in with many people
What advice could there be for me. Should i toughen up and be a man?
Here is a picture of me and my brother, me on the right and my brother on the left
Am I considered less attractive and interesting if I am a sensitive guy? What views do women have on soft men?
I like when there is a healthy balance with sensitivity and toughness in men. So the toughness is something you can develop. That way he can be empathetic yet not a pushover. I find having a healthy balance of both makes a great leader.
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Actually it's a good thing, i would also prefer a sensitive man who can sense someone's emotion than a guy who act tough but insensitive. Most women like to be notice in every small details by someone they find attractive/someone they like. So being sensitive to someone's emotion is a big turn-on.
No being sensitive is great. Being incredibly sensitive is not so nice, crying or getting upset because you forgot to get your partner’s favourite drink is an example lol. Girls, the ones who have good intentions, want a sensitive man, one who is open and shows emotions. I’d much rather have a sensitive guy than one who I have to BEG to show me emotion and be all sensitive. So being sensitive isn’t unattractive
You can have a sensitive side and still carry yourself like a man. Walk with good posture and confidence. Dont sway your hips like a girl. You and your bro look really cute in that pic
FEMALE DATING STRATEGY where females go to talk about dating so they can find a man
let me show you some of the things girls have admitted on that reddit page
1) female cock blocking, that other girls will try to take a man even when another girl is already trying to get him, and they know it but they do not care
2) girls admitting they like narcissistic tendencies in men yet at the same time saying to avoid it BUT THEY NEVER DO
3) if you call a grown women a girl thats a bad thing, lol AS IF SHE IS NOT A GIRL
4) that is a man watches porn he is bad ( AS IF GIRLS DO NOT WATCH PORN AND RUB ONE OUT )
5) THEY SAY MEN do not want to see their kids but the mother actually is not letting men see their children
6) and the biggest one LESS WOMEN MAKE IT TO HEAVEN by the word of GOD so i accept it WOMEN ARE A PROBLEM
Ecclesiastes 7:28
while I was still searching but not finding— I found one upright man among a thousand, but not one upright woman among them all.
Tbh I’m not even going to bother reading all that. Reddit doesn’t speak for every woman out there. So because you see thousands of women being shit on reddit it now means that 3. something billion women are all shit like those few thousands? Please…
That’s speaking about immoral women. The book of proverbs speaks about following ungodly examples. No sin is hidden from God. Anyone can be saved if they repent. To say “most women do not make it to heaven” is dumb because both men and women are sinners. Men rape, abuse, cheat on pregnant wives and just in general , ect… so no women aren’t the only bad ones. Who are you to judge who goes to heaven and hell? James 4:11-12 “Do not speak evil against one another, brothers. The one who speaks against a brother or judges his brother, speaks evil against the law and judges the law. But if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the law but a judge. There is only one lawgiver and judge, he who is able to save and to destroy. But who are you to judge your neighbor?”
Or what about John 8:7… “And as they continued to ask him, he stood up and said to them, “Let him who is without sin among you be the first to throw a stone at her.”
Matthew 7:5 “Hypocrite! First remove the plank from your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.”
of course men rape more but women abuse and cheat more its easy to prove
cause if women only want 15% percent of men THE STATS ARE ON THE INTERNET you can look it up
HOW CAN MEN CHEAT MORE if women only want a small section of men?
what is shows is that women are all going after the same guys lol you are all shallow, when 80% of women all go for the same men, SO THOSE MEN HAVE ENDLESS OPTIONS
and you are all just in a LINE (LITERALLY) for your time as the side girl to be fucked and left behind
while other men who get no sex end up raping you women
as the bible says
Proverbs 2:17
who has left the partner of her YOUTH and ignored the covenant she made before God
Ecclesiasticus 26:25
A shameless woman shall be counted as a dog; but she that is shamefaced will fear the Lord
Proverbs 31:3
Do not spend your strength on women, your vigor on those who ruin kings.
But she who gives herself to pleasure is dead while she lives. – 1 Timothy 5:6
FOR WOMEN HAVE GIVEN UP the husbands of their youth they do not love us men
cause even in the top percent of men THAT YOU WOMEN LIKE those men still have horrible stories to speak of you women
whether we are ugly or hot it is clear
YOU WOMEN DO NOT LOVE US MEN but my GOD Christ does love us men
Mate you are so nice lost and so full of hate towards women. You’ll end up alone because of it and then you can’t blame women because what woman would want to be with someone like you? You’re incredibly sad and I’ll pray for you. Good day.
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