Would you relocate for someone who feels like the love of your life?

[ryang04]

So let’s start off by saying I have always wanted to move away from my home state, but I was waiting till school is over. Also my parents have told me don’t let them be the reason I choose to stay. I have been seeing this girl for a few months and we click like I’ve never click before.

Like she checks every single box and she has stated I have checked every single box of hers, but she is moving. Just out of curiosity I checked if there was a union close to where she is moving and there is. One of the benefits of my union is I can transfer to a different one and continue my education there and they will find me a job with a union company. So in all honesty it’s really not that much of an uproot and I feel like I would be crazy not to take this opportunity.

If it don’t workout I can always pick up right where I left off. I wanted to get other people’s opinions on would you move for the love of your life or even the chance that you found the one.

[AviatorTom]

Sure. Of course I would. A personal relationship is more important than just about anything.

When I was young, I really liked this girl, but it was a long distance relationship and didn't work out. I told her the LDR was probably the reason we didn't work out, and she told me, sincerely, that she would move to be with someone she loves, but that wasn't the case for me. I learned an important lesson; she was a very intelligent and caring woman.

[DishLady]

No, probably not. I have my life all set up and I'm happy as I am. If there's a fellow and we can make things work without displacing our families, I'd be very pleased.

[SueShe]

Most likely no and this for a number of reasons.

1. I don't date and nor do I have a plan to date.

2. As a student, I cannot afford to lose or waste all the time and efforts I have put in my studies to relocate to a place that does not offer the same curriculum as I don't feel or want to abandon my studies.

3. My field of studies is kind of special and even if I was in a relationship, I could most likely never find a job in that field as there are limited geographical areas where I could work in my field of studies once (and if) I get my degree.

It is no use to spend that much time and energy into studies just to abandon everything for a relationship that is likely only going to last a few months or years.

[Marshast]

Everyone’s advice on here is a reflection of their experiences, not yours. They can’t tell you about your future based on theirs own life lesson. If you think there’s a way, go for it. No one is living and breathing for you, and I don’t think you are either.

[Nikki1989]

I did relocate, but we both wanted to make the move. I would never move countries purely for a man.

[7Phoenix7]

I would…

but it depends on where I’m relocating to. The weather has to be nice 😁

[Sexiestjohnson]

The tricky part of this question is the "feel" part. You have to be sure bro.

[LiamJHayden]

No. Feelings/emotions are liars and I will not unroot my life on the less than 5% chance that it is real.

[Anonymous]

I have zero problem with moving. But F*** NO, i'm not moving ANY woman.

[NathanDavis]

nowadays, I could relocate, yes

[slatyb]

I might. This isn't difficult. Go and find out.

[Alex-Snow]

Probably... love is more important go for it.

[arianna1414]

maybe it depends