Have you ever looked out for better option while you were in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

ever been in a relationship with someone for a while then realize you would only settle for this person? so you go out and look out for better option to come along?

[Orion84]

No, never.

If/when I'm in a relationship, then I'm entirely committed to that relationship, and that woman. I have never, and would never, think about "trading up" while I'm with them.

If I truly didn't think they were the one for me, then I would do the honorable/respectful thing, and just end the relationship, rather than continue to waste each other's time.

[Anonymous]

No. I would just end the relationship if I no longer felt she was the one. Relationships aren't based on what others think. It is about building something together.

[Nikki1989]

Only when the relationship I had wasn't that great. You would have to be an idiot to not want to better your situation.

[HollyK21]

Exactly this👏

[Anonymous]

Nope. What would be the point of remaining in that relationship if that was the attitude.

[FreyaRed]

No. I'm not greedy

[Iron_Man]

No Never i’m very loyal

[Asker]

even to someone who isn't good enough in many ways?

[Iron_Man]

Yes..

[Asker]

why would you be so serious for someone who clearly isn't good enough?

[Iron_Man]

Because maybe she can change maybe I really like her maybe she’s very beautiful all these things

[Iron_Man]

It’s not that easy just to kick somebody out and start over again, especially in these days and I am not that type of person I would feel too guilty and I wouldn’t do it. And I also get attached to the person.

[Asker]

people dont tend to change.

[Iron_Man]

I’d like to try to give people a chance

[Asker]

you dont have to kick them out. just date 2 people at once. if one of them dumps you, you will still have a girlfriend

[Asker]

@iron_man

[Iron_Man]

You’re describing early in the dating. Dating different people. Once you have a girlfriend and you have known her for a year or two you’re already attached. And she could be living with you. I might like her personality or intelligence so many things involved.

[Asker]

@iron_man

so what if you are attached? imagine if a girl 10x hotter than your girlfriend shows up. you can't say no to that.

[Iron_Man]

I’m too loyal. I would have to say no

[Asker]

@iron_man

what if your girlfriend has a lot of flaws you dont like? would that change your mind?

[Iron_Man]

No, I wouldn’t change my mind. I would get be discouraged, but I would hang in there because I’m loyal. I want her to try and do the best she can and have a good attitude.

[Asker]

@iron_man

what if i told you that there is a better woman out there that is a better fit for you?

[Iron_Man]

Well, if it was in the beginning, I would take it before I knew the other girl but once I started in with the other girl and I’ve known her for a while, I won’t break away

[Asker]

@iron_man

you're definitely the emotions over logic type of man

[Iron_Man]

I guess whatever you say I’m just very loyal and I don’t believe in abandonment

[Anonymous]

What makes this person not enough for you?

[beenherebefore]

Nope.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Never!

[jahaims]

No, I'm not trash