Why does he keep doing this to me?

[Twistabot]

My boyfriend told me he was done with his baby mother. I found out online he drove to her. He picked her up and their kid and took them both to his house. Yet, he told me he loves my daughter but we're both living with my sister. Smh I lost my house because of him. He told me he was talking to another woman but I don't think he told her anything. He didn't even tell her he was with me... he still has single on his Facebook

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1 mo

I was pregnant by him twice. But he told me he didn't want any kids yet, so I got an abortion.

However, I found out he was happy about his side chick being pregnant. Plus he's been sending money for the child behind. My back. I was so hurt. But now I don't even have a house anymore because I was helping him keep HIS house. I thought he stopped seeing his side chick and the baby , but she posted online, "my kid Dad picked me and our daughter up" . My heart dropped to the floor. Smh.

[FindingCommonSense]

Because you are disconnected from your emotions. All the opinions below tell you to disconnect from emotions even further, do not listen to them. When you disconnect from emotions, they turn into anxieties, obsessions and phobias. Then no matter what your sister tells you, your body feels like dying if you don't seek the unstable. Which evidently you did before even meeting your boyfriend. This disconnect is exactly what caused you to become pregnant and get an abortion, twice. You know how abortions are extremely traumatizing to some? Well, since you were brave enough to do it twice, that is just proof you don't listen to your emotions. Whenever anyone tells you to get your shit together and be stronger and more logical, they are pouring waste onto an already clogged toilet. You were neglected long before you met this loser. Weren't you? ㅤ

[sawno]

Sounds more like you were the side chick.

[HollyK21]

I was literally just about to write this! Glad I read the comments first lol

[sawno]

@HollyK21 We are often on the same page about these things I noticed haha

[HollyK21]

Quite literally, I’m gonna send you a follow lol

[sawno]

@HollyK21 I've had a follow request on your profile for a while to.

[HollyK21]

Oh man, that’s definitely my bad, I got too many requests and stopped checking them long ago💀 but we’re all good now! ☺️

[HollyK21]

Better question — why do you keep allowing it? You teach him how to treat you, and so far all you’ve taught him is that regardless of how many times or ways he screws you over, you are not going anywhere, which is a shame because neither of you see you as the prize. I mean look at your position, playing the side chick role after how much you’ve sacrificed and he doesn’t give a single fck. There’s no “up” in this situation, just “out”, and if I were you I’d rather get out before he gets the chance to do it first.

[Abbycado]

Better question is why do you put up with it?

[Anonymous]

Why are u trying to trap him. He doesn’t like u clearly

[DryGermanGuy]

Because you are a weakling and allow it.

[In_Trance]

Because you keep putting up with it

[Anonymous]

You should dump him.

[MasterKS]

weird creature.