Are male looks really less important than female looks in dating?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You're question is flawed in the sense that you want a yes or no answer to this. The problem is women are NOT a monolith. Understand about 70% of women today are NOT dating material. I'm sorry, that's just REALITY. 70% will not see your worth regardless of what you look like, say, or do. When you realize and understand that you've only got a shot with 30% and only 1/3 of that number (10%) will be attracted to you. Well now you're getting a better sense of where dating is for the avg. man.

This is totally fine. Because with an earth's population of 4.15 billion women. That means you have a shot with 415 million of them. And you only need it to work with 1.👍

Are women today more shallow and materialistic? Yes. But so is society in general. But there will always be a woman out there who will see your worth. It's just a matter of finding her (and that isn't always easy). So don't beat yourself up regardless of what you look like. I promise you you look much bettwr than you give yourself credit for. So just do your best to be the best version of yourself and then don't worry about. Because the most attractive thing on a man is confidence.👍

Chazmatazz269 · Accepted Answer

Physical attraction is equally important to both genders. This is an absolute fact of evolutionary biology. Creating beautiful offspring is one way to ensure that your bloodline persists.
The difference is that men can make up for being less attractive than a competitor by proving himself to be a superior provider and protector. Since men almost never rely on women to protect them and provide for them, some people think that means men ONLY care about women’s appearance. That is wholly false and it always has been. Before women collectively decided that everything men want is toxic masculinity, women used to invest time and energy in proving that they are good homemakers and can be good mothers. That’s how they set themselves apart from their competition. Now that that’s an issue, they push the false narrative harder than ever because they think they deserve the best men without having to prove that they are the best woman.

FreyaRed · Accepted Answer

No but most boys have often wrong perception what women find attractive and what not. Of course there are 100% attractive men like young Alain Delon or young Brad Pitt, but this isn't the measure for average guy and different women have different favors for specific types of men too.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Most women aren't as one-dimensional as males.

MerakSahibi · Answer

Generally, yes, but it also depends on what the man brings to the relationship.

If he's the one leading the conversations,

If he's carrying the financial burden,

And if he's protecting and taking care of the woman,

Then it's only fair that the woman should make up for it by putting more effort into her appearance and looking more attractive.

exitseven · Answer

Guys can have other positive attributes like lots of money.

kembguy · Answer

Yes most definitely

Anonymous · Answer

Not to me.

jahaims · Answer

Duh.

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