Why do people act like I’m wrong for backing off after rejection at work?

[Anonymous]

yeah at work you not supposed to talk to anyone I wasn’t going to because I feel it’s weird just talking to someone without a reason to know them especially women at work. If she was the one starting the conversation ok but I’m not looking for it let’s make a long story short I’m looking at a girl I told my associate about. So next day she walks out he says something to her and it’s like he already knows her she is smiling talking to him so I just keep my mouth shut. So I can tell when I looked at her she was giving the look of. Discomfort so I decided to take the hint from there didn’t even have to try so I go inside for my shift she’s at the front desk I go to the break room grab a snack as I’m leaving she’s coming in. Funny how life has a way of throwing things in your face but I tell my co worker about it giving him the update he’s like oh that was your chance. I proceeded to tell him hey man she wasn’t interested I’m letting it go and it’s like some people just don’t get it it’s like they think I don’t try or anything like it’s weird for me to take the rejection or something. Hey I seen she was into my guy so I’m just staying in my lane and separating myself from the situation before I embarrass myself.

[SueShe]

Honestly?

How are we even supposed to give you an answer to your question that is basically unreadable. There are practically no punctuation or then, the little punctuation there is is in the wrong place. I tried to go over your text 2 times and I finally gave up.

If you want people to actually give you a reply, please ensure that we understand what you mean to say. I am aware that grammar is no longer taught in school and that computers replace teachers but this text is a total failure.

I tried to make an effort but I gave up.

[Nikki1989]

Just do your job, go home, and get paid. Ignore all this other petty nonsense.

[Mariogirl09]

I actually dont think she was frowning AT you... i think she was frowning over your friend talking to her. But to be careful... maybe leave her be for a while. See if she approaches you. Remain open

[strateguy632]

But you are not wrong.