If a girl that I used to work with texts me and I ask her out will it shock her since I acted like a friend when we were coworkers?

[Anonymous]

[Masie]

No. I don't think shocked is the right word. Maybe surprised that you had feelings for her. I would not personally be shocked if it happened to me. You can get close with coworkers easily.

You also know a lot about their lives typically if you work closely with a person. That sets the groundwork for a relationship because you know a lot about them.

[Asker]

She actually knew I liked her when we were coworkers. I just never made a move

[Masie]

Then I definitely don't think she will be shocked
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[Asker]

You don't think she would be shocked?

[Masie]

No, I don't think so.

[Asker]

Why do you think so?

[Masie]

Why would you think she wouldn't be? She knew you liked her by your own words.

[Asker]

Of course, but I thought girls forget.

[slatyb]

No, she wants you to ask her out. Why do you think she texted you? She figures you didn't ask her before because you didn't want to date a colleague.

[Asker]

Wait seriously?

[slatyb]

Do I have to hit you over the head with a clue stick? Ask her out. Suppose she says no. So to the f***ing what.

[Alex-Snow]

Just be honest with her and tell her that now that you are not working together it would be fun to go on a date. Is she ur age?

[In_Trance]

Fuck around and find out

[exitseven]

No, give it a go

[Asker]

I was worried that she would think dude you pretended to be my friend when we were coworkers.