How can I show interest in someone I’d like to date if I’m very reserved?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

You put yourself out there ONCE and ONLY ONCE. There's no way around this. The caveat of all this is you need to make your interest sufficiently apparent before asking her out so you're not catching her off guard (because that WILL result in a "no" otherwise). I would say a few days to a week. I do think the BEST women you can know for months before you ever actually, "date". And when you actually do date her it's almost like a formality (not in her mind, you still have to ask because she a good woman and deserves that), but by then she knows you really well and her motives are poor. She's not in it just for an emotional high.

But as i said NEVER ask her out more than once. If she by chance changes her mind and wants to date you it is REQUIRED that she ask you at that point. If she doesn't want to do that then she doesn't really value you. This is why i say you need to make your interest SUFFICIENTLY clear before asking her out. Because you have to walk away if the answer is no after that one time shot. This is NOT negotiable. No woman respects a man who does not respect himself.

Good luck man.🙂👍

[Alex-Snow]

Ask questions about her life and desires, plans etc. Get a girl to talk about herself and always just be yourself.

[Alex-Snow]

Ty for the mho

[Abbycado]

It should be obvious that you do. No extra effort needed.

[Nikki1989]

You don't need to dominate the conversation.

[Nikki1989]

And stop posting as an anon. If you anons knew how many people laugh at you, most would stop immediately.