What was a time when you were interested in someone, but they did something that instantly killed any chance they had?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I can't say this like there's a short list of dealbreakers. I mean there is, but people are mixed bags. Very few people are going to be perfect matches for you. But it's less about someone doing that one thing that "kills ot" with you. And more that one think that confirms your suspicions about her. Contrary to popular belief, most (key word) MATURE women KNOW what they want in a man. They don't have to b e convinced. Though they MAY have to be convinced that you are who you purport yourself to be. But a lot of women are not very mature, and view men as busses, "another will be along in 10 minutes" they tell themselves. And those women ciew men as such. When the man commit an unforgiveable infraction in her mind she'd rather wait for the next bus. Men conversely do not have that luxury wirh women. At the same point, men still need to have standards. So while a woman can just write a man off and man instead has to actually determine a womans quality. And that can only be done by letting a few things slide until he confirms, "nope, she's just a terrible person".

OneViewpoint · Accepted Answer

A mild example but a few weeks ago a woman I know was trying to set me up with either of two women in her group. Both asked to meet me. I was chatting with the two of them and my military background came up. Both said in unison, "oh you must be Republican, so am I". LOL, I lost no time informing them that I am not even remotely a fan of what the Republican party has degenerated into. Then I told them both there is no chance in hell we are ever gonna be friends. Well, that ended that. 🤣

queenofcardio · Accepted Answer

His stance on certain issues really turned me off

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

He started talking.  The end!

NathanDavis · Answer

she took off her jacket... had a supremacist tattoo.. lmao

KostasKouvalis · Answer

She was hitting on me while she was still in a relationship

blshbnz · Answer

Started being sexual on the first day

fonduegirl · Answer

Usually when they make a misogynistic joke

Anonymous · Answer

Sexual joke too soon

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