
Have you ever had anyone interested in you and then when you actually try to get with them they either lost interest or already got with someone?


Several times 🤦♀️
Back in my younger days, I would like a guy, but was too shy to tell him that I liked him (because stupid me assumed if a guy likes you, he would tell you or ask you out, right?) So I just hung out with said guy hoping he'd eventually fall for me if I spent time with him.
Nope, he would move on and date another girl instead.
For example, there was one guy I admitted I liked him, and surprisingly he liked me too- but was seeing someone else so I was too late. After that our timing was ALWAYS off: we were never single at the same time.
Nowadays if I like a guy and he's single, I tell him off the bat I'm interested in getting to know him! Does it work out? Not at all! But it's better than risking not saying anything and finding out later he did like me.
I think when we are young and lucky enough to find special people, we think we’ll always have more opportunities. Endless supply of special people. It’s those of us that learn early on not to create regrets.
It has happened before. It really sucks.
When I was in college there was a girl I had a huge crush on. I tried talking to her a few times but she gave a "fuck off" vibe so I stopped trying. At the time I was disappointed and thought it was some personal defect of mine that caused her to reject me. I admit it fucked with my head at the time. Anyways, I found out years later she had the hots for me but she was so damn shy that she would get awkward when I was around. And here I am thinking that she could not stand my 21 year old ass.
Oh well-- too late now.
Sometimes people know that they love each other they have feelings for each other , they care about each other. But then also know that it's impossible to have them in our life. Coz Time is not kind for everyone. So what they do they let each others to go. And that's reality , you have to accept that anyhow.
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I had a grade school crush... I liked this girl so much for years. But she never cared for me. In highschool after I started dating other girls... she finally displayed a serious interest. But after years of wanting this girl, I didn't care any more.
I was burn out on her, could not muster the feelings or energy anymore. In short I got over it and didn't want revisit it.
Have happened with claiming no interest when being clear with feelings.
Unfortunately for them is that they suffer from certain kind of problems they need to address to be able to get a health relationship work.
Usually shit test woth that unless I scare her away on purpose to not need to deal with her later on that she wants me bad and behaves inappropriate even that she has ben turned down.
Not really my fault. I was in a coma when ready to act. Well, I was planning to act the week I was in a coma. She was taken the week I was trying to recover. Another time I was ready to ask out a girl, but she was literally asked out earlier the same day. I was friends with both if them after the fact. The former said she would have agreed to go out with me if I had asked first.
smoking hot blonde in high school was totally into me and I really don't know why I didn't jump all over her. she has a great personality and everything... anyway, she lost interest and of course when she did I pursued her only to be shut down like a chump... anyway we are still friends to this day and I think my wife is hotter (and younger) than she is anyway.
probably when i was a TEEN. people should be over that after the age of 18...
some people aren't. would you think less of those people?
Most times when I'm interested they generally are not. It's a rarity for interest to be mutual.
Most times guys like the way I look, spend time with me and quickly realise I'm not what they're looking for.
I've had a bad habit of being too defensive, just out of fear of coming on too strong that I overcorrect the other way.
Nah lol. Doesn't happen that way for me. I tend to like a guy and he ends up liking my friend. Or just not being interested at all.
No, that's never happened to me. I've never had anyone showing interest in me and I won't have anytime soon.
Nope, the last email was Aug 2011 and she ghosted me also she told me her mother had cancer never heard from her since and I sent her another email and nothing back it was done earlier this year
@henryallen thought you might wanna follow this question in case anyone has anything helpful to say
Yeah... sure thank you
No. But i had someone interested in me. I was the love of their life according to them. 3 weeks later, they got with another guy XD so that was confusing. Guess I was lucky that i wasn't interested.
Girls that I was interested in already had a boyfriend or they just wasn’t interested in me. There have been signs that a girl might have been interested in me. Then again I don’t really know
No one was ever interested in such individual like RARETRAMP never ever and it probably never come. Some people are born to be lonely
Nope. I honestly don't recall anyone ever being interested in me.
No they weren’t interested in me they probably didn’t even know that I existed 😂
I’ve lost interest when they got too shy. A few Mexican girls. Aw who cares those particular girls were too young anyway. Like 18
Yes, that’s why I got with someone too. lol
You beat someone else to the punch?
Yeah. lol
No, if anything i was too fast too act lol
B 🤦♀️ see them together so often too 😩🤣🤣
I don't remember this happening to me
Nope no female has ever had interest in me.
Happened to every crush of me
That's what happens to me 90% of the time
Yeah it’s happened
Kinda
ooh yep!
Yeah
Yes, several times!
I would like to go make it 'All ok' again!
Yeah
Many times
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