In dating, should you match their energy or always take it slow?

[A_Gentleman]

In dating, would it be wise to match your date's energy and pace to move forward, or always take things slow?

[NathanDavis]

you should be genuine and be yourself... and let them do the same

the rest is balance and adjustment, meet in the middle... and if that's not possible then don't force it... have other dates with people that are more compatible, lol

[MrChinaski]

If I'm into someone, I'm always 100% in. Life is short. Why would I take it slow? That just means spending less time with them.

[queenofcardio]

Matching their energy is ideal. Sometimes, going slow can unintentionally come across as being uninterested.

[Anonymous]

Whichever you are comfortable. Be yourself, do not adjust for someone else.

[Drumlin2001]

Why force yourself to take it slow? If things feel right then go with the flow

[Nikki1989]

Hopefully you can match it.

[Jersey2]

Be yourself.