Why do some people show interest in someone when they’re in a relationship than when they’re single?

[MizzArtFreak89]

This may sound like a stupid, but I remember when I was like 21 going on 22, I was in my first real relationship back in 2011. I was happy, in love and whatever. Never had a boyfriend and it was my first one. Young love. I’ve been hit on a couple times when I was in a relationship more than when I was single. I mean I get hit on once in a while but when I was in a relationship I got hit in a lot. I wasn’t the best looking girlfriend or in shape (back the. I thought guys only liked slimmer girls, smaller girls or I needed to be slim, but I was just dumb).

I know it isn’t always that way but it because I was a different person or whatever?

[Finchie40]

Because a lot of people like the challenge of trying to win someone over that is already in a relationship with someone else , Guys’ and Girls’ do this shit all the time , Basically they want what they can’t have , but they try anyways Sometimes they achieve and sometimes they don’t. Most people don’t care if someone they are attracted to to is already in a relationship with someone else. They like the challenge of trying to win them over , Bottomline most people are just selfish and only really care about themselves and what they feel is best for themselves. I use to make a big deal about this until I realized if someone wants to cheat on their partner , they are going to cheat , I have hooked up with girls’ that lied to me about being single when really they weren’t , I also been in relationships with girls’ that their own friends’ wanted to hook up with me behind their friends’ back , so just goes to show most people lack dignity and respect for other people , they just care about themselves

[MizzArtFreak89]

That’s very said but it makes sense of what you said. People just don’t want to be honest. I prefer someone to be honest.

[Finchie40]

Yea honesty is important to me , especially from all the experiences and things I have witnessed through out my life , if a girl can’t be honest with me , she isn’t the girl for me period

[bowenw]

The heart wants what the heart wants. It doesn't care about logic.

[MizzArtFreak89]

Ahh okay

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Nikki1989]

I have never seen that from other women, but I see it with married men all the time. Most always seem to be looking to cheat on their wives.

[MizzArtFreak89]

That’s horrible.

[Nikki1989]

Almost everyone I work with are married men, as are most of my clients. Almost all flirt and chat up other women. I see it happening most days.

[AI Opinion]

Great question! People often perceive someone in a relationship as more attractive because confidence and happiness are like invisible glitter. When you’re in love and glowing, others naturally notice. It can also be the classic "want what you can’t have" scenario—someone being "off-limits" can be alluring. It’s not about body shape; it’s about that inner vibe you radiate. Keep glittering, darling! ✨💕