I don't think it's the case that they stop caring. It is most likely that they didn't see you romantically in the first place. Now that you showed interest, they now have to evaluate everything about whether to reciprocate or not. I say if they are not resisting, it is best to give them a bit of time to decide.
It is similar the other way round. Except when a girl/woman is thinking, most guys just keep trying to convince the girl/woman. I have never heard of a woman trying to convince a guy. Just give them the time but continue being friendly for a certain time. They are likely going to slowly reciprocate. The moment you go for some one else, it is game over. You just took away their freedom to decide and made the decision for them. There is no reason why the should chase you.
This is why traditional women always win when trying to catch their guy. They know how to play the long game. Morden women are clueless and used to being chased. They also have the "I want it now" attitude. Which often doesn't work well in their favour when they have to pursue the guy because they lack patience.
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Modern Women are like that.
A sense of mystery must be kept by the guy I order to fuel her imagination and keep her interested.
Where as men are by large, trained to understand that marriage is a duty. The word "Provide" or "protect" has no connotations to feelings of fun or joy. Men fundamentally get that their role is to endure.
The funny thing is, both women have a duty, but Disney has slowly eroded away female responsibility. One has to simply sit there are the prince with all the wealth already made, is meant to protect you.
In real life, both the male and female principles are used to build generational wealth.
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I wouldn't blame it on this generation. All generations have that phenomenon. As long as one person is doing the chasing, the other one doesn't have to worry about reproducing their genes. I too get angry about why things have to be so complicated. But the reality is, we're not field mice (one of the most faithful species), so we just have to develop thick skin.
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because you are attracted to those types of men. but ignore the men who do. Men who have options are more likely to stray and not commit and thats what most women are attracted to. Thats ok we are both on the same page. yet women think those men are safe.
Men and women today are not taught to find those who want to be with them. We are taught to chase those who never give us a chance because that's what we have always seen. I'd love a girl who gives me constant attention and only me that I know is loyal.
It really sounds like two different questions. In the title, it sounds like you have guys fleeing when you show interest in someone else. The answer to that is, "Why expend energy when she is already interested in someone else?" In the body it sounds like you have guys fleeing when you show interest in them. To that the answer is, "Those guys were interested in the chase, not the capture." I can't relate but I know it happens.
Usually when a guy backs off from commitment he is not ready to settle down. Immaturity plays a huge factor in these situations. Just watch out for the red flags because there are plenty of guys that think they are willing to settle down but in all actuality are not
They either are scared of commitment/letting someone come to close to them because of the pain that heartbreaks have caused in previous realtionships or they are simply not willing to commit
Funny you should say, most of the women I've dated have done this. If I don't care they do, if I care they don't.
Acknowledging the interest removes the uncertainty and anticipation. Basically, the situation isn't as fun.
Usually because they like things the way they are.
Girls do it too, happens to me quite often, just seems like some people like a challenge
I agree.
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