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So there is that guy, he is a brother of my friend. We were seeing eachother during holidays. I wasn't quite sure of his intention at the beginning but I think he was hitting on me. I turned him down few times. I wanted to clear the air and just asked his sister about his intention. But because the conversation started getting weird I just said I am not interested in her brother ( which is a lie). She told me he was just being friendly. I think it was more a defensive mechanism rather than the truth. I talked to her later about it and cleared this up, ( I didn't want to talk to her about it anymore but the sudden situation made me) and when I said I would be interested in her brother she told me to text him. She was also asking me why I said certain things. Those that he might have interpreted as a rejection.
Anyways, she told me we can talk about it later but I decided I have to make things right on my own. So I texted him yesterday. I texted "Do you have some free time, I really want to talk to you đ". And he didn't answer me till today. It's been almost 24 h. His sister is not contacting me and I can't see absolutely no reason why he wouldn't text me. What's more, our latest interaction was perfectly fine. He was driving me and his sister form the airport. He was engaging with me, he touched my hand few times and when I wanted to pay him he said "just go to sleep don't talk about it now". And added "we will see eachother anyway". ( There is upcoming mountain trip with their friends). Now I am scared if that trip will even work out. I have no idea why he isn't texting me back. Even his sister told me it is safe to talk to him. Even though I rejected him few times he was still trying. Maybe now he is waiting what I will do if he doesn't text me? Maybe he wants to check if I really care? If he was just friendly, which I strongly doubt, he would answer to this message. I have no idea what to do. I did him wrong few times, should I text him and explain that?
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Nah leave him alone. He doesnât seem interested in hearing more.
Well, he just left me at the delivered. He didn't even look at the message. And as I said, I know his sister and she told me to text him too, and he was nice and acting interested last time I saw him
Just because his sister said so, doesnât mean he wants to talk lol
Yes, you are right. The thing is they are very close together and she was playing matchmaker at the very beginning of it. That's why I asked her what is going on. And she is well aware of his feelings towards me but she will not tell me directly. I specifically asked her if it is safe to text him and she said yes. That's the problem.
A rejection makes all good feelings go away. Have you ever been rejected? Itâs not fun for someone. And you donât wanna talk to them again cuz itâs embarrassing. And maybe she didnât even ask him if it was âsafeâ. She probably just said yes to keep your friendship unaffected from your judgement
You are right, the thing is that after that rejection he was still nice and engaging to me and he was making moves towards me.
And that's why I am th
Thinking about clearing the air and texting him that I was wrong. At the last meeting he told me we will see eachother anyways.
Wait to discuss in person then. Give him some space to process and move on. Think Abbott how he feels and not just yourself
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Keep an open mind. The ball is in his court so to speak. How old is he?
Canât hurt to explain
Dont text... call him.
Move on
Why? If the last time we saw eachother so 4 days ago, he was making plans with me?