Girls, what should a guy absolutely avoid doing or saying on a first date?

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Veronika_p · Accepted Answer

Honestly, as a woman, I’d say the biggest turn-offs are talking about your ex too much, making sexual comments too early, constantly checking your phone, bragging about money, or trying too hard to impress me. 😅

I’d also pay attention to how you treat other people, especially waiters. If you’re rude to them, that tells me a lot.

For me, a first date should feel comfortable and natural. Ask me questions, actually listen to my answers, make me laugh, and don’t pressure me into anything. ❤️

You don’t have to be perfect. Just be respectful, genuine, and interested in getting to know me. And please don’t make the whole date about yourself 😂

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

Talking about his ex girlfriend. If I think he wants a rebound, I will block his number.

AviatorTom · Answer

It's way too early for either party to say "I love you" during the date, though I have heard successful stories where the guy said "I'm gonna marry you someday" when they first met.

DishLady · Answer

Avoid being rude or referencing exes.  Avoid showing off or being flashy.  Avoid scoping out other women or flipping through apps while she’s sitting with you or talking to you.

Laws-Of-Existence · Answer

Absolutely avoid keeping any to do lists and not to do lists. It causes the same detachment from reality as what makes you resort to trying to use these lists.

Treat the person as if they're your best friend. At least for one day. That means being respectful as fuck and paying attention and shit. ㅤ

Sevenpointfive · Answer

i had this one girl tell me she was still in love with her ex. she moved out 3 months ago, to live with her sister's boyfriend and his older roommate. she felt set up and obligated to sleep with the roommate. her sister wanted them together. she showed me a picture of the roommate and he was not attractive. i cringed. and she agreed saying he doesn't find him attractive at all and she didn't want to sleep with him anymore. the red flags were endless on that one. she ended up marrying the roommate but i straight up gave her advice on just this topic so she wouldn't do it again. she was too young to know what the hell to do. sad

shish_kebab · Answer

The best first date is no first date. Just agree to meet her for a 15 minute cup of coffee. You'll know in 5 minutes if you want a real first date with her later, or even if you ever want to see her again. And she will agree with that strategy, because she might not want to see you again either.  
 I went out on a first date with a beautiful woman who was smart and nicely built. Her only law was that she was a witch. But we had already ordered food at that point and it was the longest night of my life. 😜

PixieFairyBtch · Answer

Trying to mansplain everything, checking your phone too much and prioritizing it over the time you’re claiming you wanted to spend with them. Being rude or toxic to other people and they themselves included, trying to touch them if not given permission (super important), talking about your ex.. there’s a lot more, offer to do the little things~

NathanDavis · Answer

religion and politics, of course...  basically... if you hate something or someone, keep it to yourself at least a little longer keep things more positive...

slatyb · Answer

If you have to ask the question, you aren't going to understand the answer. There's no formula, you just have to treat your date as a fellow human being instead of a prize in a video game.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Never ever bring up an ex.  If she asks, she's trapping you. So, keep it short.  Also, don't talk about yourself too much.  Don't brag.

Dargil · Answer

First date; do NOT discuss sexual intimacy  AT ALL.  But you should address it during the second or third date while you are negotiating whether or not you're going advance into a relationship.

sage2021 · Answer

Don't undress me with your eyes 👀 and if you do, please fold my clothes because I always do.

CarolineWhizz · Answer

Can you excuse me for a moment? Every 4 hours I have to go to the bathroom and apply ointment to my genital herpes

Tranquility_Lady · Answer

Absolutely do pay the full bill for the visit date don't avoid it don't be rude but kind and buy her flowers

Anonymous · Answer

This one would probably be a no no.

queenofcardio · Answer

Avoid discussing religion and politics.

Paige2006 · Answer

Avoid talking about your ankle bracelet issued by the goverment

rgb008 · Answer

Don’t sneeze on her

exitseven · Answer

no talking about old girlfriends

Kassandra1994 · Answer

Being a mommas boy.

Brandi555 · Answer

“You’re paying, right?”

blackeagle007 · Answer

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