What should you NOT do on a first date with a potential partner?

[Pinay_ako]

No spicy food for you 😂

You think and feel this person is a good match for you and you don’t wanna mess it up.

[comekitty]

Not that I think you would do any of these things...

Don't order messy food

Dont order food with excessive onions or garlic - Have some mints in your purse

Don't have too many drinks

Be on time

Put your phone on silent and keep it in your purse

Don't talk about yourself the whole time - do ask questions about his interests - and do have somethings to share about yourself

I'd avoid controversial topics

Don't be rude - use polite manners and smile

Keep your attention directly focused on him

Don't dress sloppy

Don't talk about exes or drama

Don't sleep with him

... thats all I got 🙂

Good luck! 🩷

[comekitty]

Also - be an active listener - when he's talking, keep eye contact, smile when appropriate, nod, and ask follow up questions or, when appropriate, add to the conversation from your own experiences. 🙂

[Beth1212]

dot look at other people

[OlderAndWiser]

Don’t have sex on the first date. Don’t tell her you think she is the one. Don’t tell her you think you could fall in love with her. Don’t start selecting baby names.

[KrakenAttackin]

Yes, and set a time limit on the first date, don't be too thirsty.

[OlderAndWiser]

Good point, Kraken! 😀😀😀

[TooHot2Care]

Oooooh, sorry hoss the instructions were unclear. So, how about I do ANYWAY.

[Legendarylegacy13]

Not have sex...

[Avicenna]

Don't be on your phone during the date

[Pinay_ako]

Yes rude

[Lionman95]

-Talk about people that aren´t around.
-Don´t be late.
- Fart and show off a bad hygiene
- spend all time on your phone
- Talk only about you and show no interest in the potential partner
- gossip
- don´t talk about make weird jokes about certain social groups...
- don´t try to play a role and be someone you´re not.

[ZackBan]

Never hold back on being your authentic self.

Most people wanna put their best foot forward but I found the secret is in the delivery not the message.

That means learn to speak calmly and clearly and articulate what you want and don't want, your likes and dislikes...

[richardcory]

View it as a chore you need to do to "advance" the relationship. Dates should be fun. If they lead to more that is great, if you find you are not compatible, that's OK too, it should never feel like you "wasted" your time with the other person

[motownplayer2000]

Lol. I don’t go into dates thinking I’m going to mess it up. I go in thinking is she someone I can invest my time and effort in. Usually that’s somewhat answered before the date starts. But I’m focused on reading her body language and cues to see what type of person she is and if she is worth it. If I mess it up, oh well, I didn’t invest a couple hours into her. So we move on.

[Curious_teen07]

Start conplaining/whining/being in a bad mood about something. Talking too much about yourself. Having a dull tone/expression

[shades777]

Don't show up dressed tacky
Dont show up smelling like balls
Dont show up with funky breathe
Dont eat, drink a coffee or water


The goal is to make sure she ain't a meal whore, and is actually interested in you.


If she always talking about food dump her ass

[Billlewis]

How about not arriving an hour late for the date? I had a woman do that and I just ordered my meal and then left when she got there with her girlfriend, whom she'd brought along to chaperone the date.

[exitseven]

Don't brag about how much money you make, don't spent the night looking at your phone and never talk about old exes.

[Solodolochick]

What if they ask about your ex and why it didn’t work out?

[exitseven]

@Solodolochick I guessif you get asked you can tell the truth about it.

[Haiatso]

For men the Donts are:

1.) Dont talk too much about yourself/ Show off

2.) Dont Look at another woman

3.) Do not Smell Bad

For Women the Dont are:

1.) Dont be completely silent

2.) Dont Take out your cell phone

3.) Dont have a "Girl Boss" attitude.

[Lliam]

Start expounding on political issues.

Go on and on about yourself in an attempt to impress them.

Look at your phone.

Eat like a pig.

[ChiTown33]

Common sense applies. Beyond that I try to be myself. I mean if she don't like who I am now she ain't going to like who I am down the road any better.

[asphaltrhymes]

Avoid thrill Activites like roller coasters or sky diving. Scary 😳

[chrissykerdock]

not give him a blowjob if it's really going well... by giving him one your guaranteeing a 2nd date and you definitely letting him know you like him more than just a little.

[KrakenAttackin]

@chrissykerdock. Fucking hell, a blowjob on the first date. That makes a guy wonder how many cocks have bounced off her tongue.

[chrissykerdock]

@KrakenAttackin no it doesn't in REAL life a guy always enjoys a blowjob on a 1st date they like it so much everytime i gave a blowjob on a 1st date i got a second... so take that church boy.

[KrakenAttackin]

Classy lady...😏

[slatyb]

Lie in an attempt to conform with what you believe they want.

[Andres77]

No sex. Focus on them. Let them talk. Start building a dossier on parents and siblings and her so you can start running background checks.

[Still-alive]

Avoid controversial topics like religion politics or sex.

[NathanDavis]

don't do stupid shit... lmao

on any other date either... for that matter

[Jazzy54]

Bring up marriage. 😬🫣

[Pinay_ako]

Yup especially on a first date

[BLP11520]

Farting is a real fear guys deal with

[Sparkie460]

Stay off your phone. Don't talk about past exes.

[Wulfheard]

Fart.

[LiamJHayden]

Propose

[CassandraSpender]

Butt sex