If a girl says we don't work as friends and then she reaches out months later can I ask her out since we don't work as friends?

[Anonymous]

[Static_In_The_Attic]

In life if you never try you will never know & in life sometimes you get second chances.

On the other side of things if you two don’t work as friends you two are probably not going to work out well in a relationship.

As for her reaching out two months later that means something & either she’s up to something or she actually thought about what she said to you & she realizes she was wrong.

Ask her out you have a 50\50 shot.

[Nikki1989]

If neither of you has changed, and the fundamental reasons why "you don't work" are still there, slapping a romantic label on the dynamic won't resolve anything.

[Mariogirl09]

What if she meant she wants to be boyfriend and girlfriend

[Asker]

Is that a possibility?

[Mariogirl09]

Im guessing yea

[Asker]

I didn't understand why she said we don't work as friends. We are originally from NYC. I was in Miami at the time and I just texted her. It started off good and then I probably said something a little flirty and then she said we don't work as friends.

[Mariogirl09]

Its still up in the air for me.

[Mariogirl09]

I don't know what she meant

[OneViewpoint]

Don't respond at all. Don't be there to feed her need for validation.

[Staximus]

Ask her why she contacted you after saying “we don’t work as friends”

[Anonymous]

No, it’s never ok to ask that