Would you do better dating if communication was more logical and direct?

[lightbulb27]

"Hi, good to meet Mitsy you after the matchup and 2 texts..."

"It's a lovely day.. tea please (to the hostess)... so whats up"

"I want in your space, up your crotch at times.. it's a hormonal thing and only path to the future, and I want someone to love me like my momma.. thoughts?"

"my crotch makes offspring, so I need a 40 year commitment. All that, I want to be happy and truly loved, like when I was a little girl and I'd play in the sand and my dad would play and comfort me when hurt. Dealing with all those headaches, you have no idea, give me what I want and support me when I have my moods. Maybe a sports car and some travel". What else do you want, is that it?

"Can you be more explicit what I need to provide.. how many kids ya think... dang things are a bit of work, whats this mood thing?". Thanks for asking, I want to just hang out and play with my guy friends, do motor bikes and football and tinker in the garage.

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Kinda robotic, but direct eh? To be honest, I had several discussions and a date kinda like that long ago. Right to the point. When not prepared, it's too much. Was young and unexperienced. In the right setting and person, might have worked.

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Also... is laughter the best medicine for relationships? I'm thinking if ya can't laugh, you're toast...

I'd like to try it

No

I dunno

[NathanDavis]

I've never had any issue with communicating or dating...

different people are into different things... and if you're just "one-dimensional" then it's probably not going to go well with most people... unless they're just as "one-dimensional" and also happen to be the same type just ONE thing, or if they're into it

logical and direct doesn't sound like the most interesting thing out there... I would leave that to bureaucracy instead... if only they were like that...

[lightbulb27]

so a little mystery and suspense is good?

[NathanDavis]

when genuine, yes... it can be, sometimes

[lightbulb27]

ok good.

[JHNS98]

Maybe a bit more direct, but not as direct as what you wrote, because that would be strange and just awkward. I actually tried that with a girl once after binging casual sex romcoms on Netflix, and it failed terribly... because of course it would.

[rachel776]

When Tootsie is dressed up as a woman the pretty girl tells him she would love it if some guy would just be direct like that, and then when he sees her as a man and uses her exact words to ask for sex, she throws a drink in his face.

[Anonymous]

Of course!

But let's be honest. When have you ever known a women to be honest and direct? I've only known one. So when i met her, i married her.😆

[lightbulb27]

I was around a few women and a few were. most are not. It's actually really unpleasant when you're not interested or not ready to handle directness.

[slatyb]

I don't think I could do much better, as women seem to be happy to converse with me.