How can I find a right guy from a dating app like tinder, ownmates, bumble?

[mwilson]

[SueShe]

You will never find the right person in a hook up site tike those you mention.

We all know what the prime goal of those sites are and why people go there in the first place. You also know that people are liars by nature and that they will only post what you want to hear. Do you honestly believe anyone will put in their bio that they are drug addicts or convicts? No, they will only lie or turn the truth around in an attempt to be seen in the best of light.

If you want to find the right person then do it in real life and not through a place where most data is fake.

[lilBigPotato]

Forget about tinder unless you just want a hookup. Never heard of ownmates. I read bumble getting rid of what made it special so probably just turning into another tinder but still probably a better chance of finding someone who is looking for something serious but in the end you'll never know. The apps are good at connecting people , not so good at finding the correct match who's honest want his intentions.

[bowenw]

Use them as a tool only for making the initial contact with guys, but be super careful, just like you would with meeting strangers on the street. Break off communicating with any guys that talk about sex from the start, or pressure for anything including photos. Try to verify who they are and their stories through other means.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[slatyb]

By getting to know them. That doesn't mean endless texting before meeting them. It means not committing prematurely. You give a little, get a little, and learn whether someone deserves your trust and affection before making a big investment.

[EmmaMary]

In a word you can't, and never will.

Why not try getting out into the real world and see what happens. 🤞

[Nikki1989]

It is very unlikely you ever will. Quality people don't need dating apps.

[Cmurra]

I haven't used any of those dating apps, so I can't really say much about them.

[Spencer10]

Dont bother. You have a much better chance meeting decent guys in the real world.

[Anonymous]

Get lucky. I have no energy to even try on those platforms, even though they seem like my only option.

[dudeinohio]

Patience and persistence. You'll encounter several poor options and maybe even date a few; but you will win in the end.

[Anonymous]

Very hard. Try finding a guy you like irl and focus on him.

[LiamJHayden]

Stop looking on apps. Apps are used primarily for hookups and by the desperate.

[Alex-Snow]

Be open and honest about your intentions and desires/wants. Take it slow and be choosy.

[MysticDevice]

Depends on your perspective of a "right guy"

[LotharioENERZY]

Trail and Error.

[Anonymous]

You won't