If you're looking for a relationship with someone and you're taking things kind of slowly...approximately how many dates is appropriate before you kiss? Would you kiss on the first date? Would you want to wait until the 3rd or 4th or maybe even longer?

There is no fixed number. should be spontaneous

For me it was in the 3-6 range, with various women.

I want a guy to make a move on the first date.

I want it asap. I'm scared if I can't land one some one else might catch her attn , I can't stand slow pace. I just playfully go for it and follow her lead, it's very ez to know when it's no.

Totally depends on the chemistry and whether it feels natural in the moment... I wouldn't care if it was the first or third+ date, just depends on the vibe

always try on the first date as you may be to slow otherwise

Never on a first date for me. Usually not even on a second.

I had 2 dates... after 2nd date it was a 1,5 month gap before first kiss and first sex same day

I my self I am a starter so I try as soon as I see that person. God Bless

Not untl 10+ years of marriage! You can never be too careful or too pure!!

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There is no fixed number. should be spontaneous

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Massageman Follow
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For me it was in the 3-6 range, with various women.

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Prettysammie Follow
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I want a guy to make a move on the first date.

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- rebeliouse
  
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  @Prettysammie
  how much of a move are you up for?
  
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- Prettysammie
  
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  @rebeliouse it depends on the guy
  
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Xper 2 Age: 42

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I want it asap. I'm scared if I can't land one some one else might catch her attn , I can't stand slow pace. I just playfully go for it and follow her lead, it's very ez to know when it's no.

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Totally depends on the chemistry and whether it feels natural in the moment... I wouldn't care if it was the first or third+ date, just depends on the vibe

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boobliker Follow
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always try on the first date as you may be to slow otherwise

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LiamJHayden Follow
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Never on a first date for me. Usually not even on a second.

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Xper 6 Age: 36

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I had 2 dates... after 2nd date it was a 1,5 month gap before first kiss and first sex same day

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Nigjt Follow
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I my self I am a starter so I try as soon as I see that person.
God Bless

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msc545 Follow
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Not untl 10+ years of marriage! You can never be too careful or too pure!!

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shades777 Follow
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First date, if it doesn't happen on the first date it ain't happening at all

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OG956 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 31

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For me it doesn't matter, cause I'm not interested in kissing (only on body)

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Maja95 Follow
Xper 2 Age: 31

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really? i take my panties off on a first date :D

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Anonymous
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Might take like five dates since it depends on her on when she wants it

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Xper 7 Age: 34 , mho 35%

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I can't give a number. When the vibe feels right

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- rebeliouse
  
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  here here do what feels right not what society tells us to do
  
  u ever gone further on first date?
  
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  can you follow me would like to ask you about Australia culture if thats ok with you
  
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I always kiss on the 1st date.

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i will kiss on the first date if it's right

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Siri137 Follow
Yoda Age: 36 , mho 46%

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Zero. I'm not wasting any time.

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  why is it wasting time? @siri137
  
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Xper 7 Age: 23 , mho 32%

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I don’t kiss on the first date

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ventustalks Follow
Xper 5 Age: 22 , mho 47%

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Depends on the person but second should be ideal

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lilBigPotato Follow
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Whenever the feeling is right

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lilyanony1 Follow
Yoda Age: 35 , mho 46%

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I wait for him to make the first move

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I skipped the date and asked for the blow job.

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sheenagwapa Follow
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if i am his girlfriend in my culture

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Alena_543 Follow
Xper 2 Age: 28

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For me even one enough if he is cute

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Drumlin2001 Follow
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No prescribed amount, whenever it feels right.

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kheserthorpe Follow
Master Age: 50 , mho 46%

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First date for sure.

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shygaloo7 Follow
Xper 1 Age: 51

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1st date! Gotta see if chemistry is there.

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TooHot2Care Follow
Xper 5 Age: 34

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1st date or F.

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HannahC Follow
Xper 7 Age: 30

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3 maybe.

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- rebeliouse
  
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  how come so many?
  
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MissBoogus Follow
Xper 7 Age: 28

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We kissed on our first encounter

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LemiaOfThunder Follow
Yoda Age: 38

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depends on the date and situation

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Mangospacho Follow
Guru Age: 44

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10, unless she’s really good looking.

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Christoff92 Follow
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Depending on the girl you're with.

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The first one or the third one

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2nd date should do it.

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dragoblack Follow
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Whenever you both feel comfortable.

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peedy Follow
Xper 7 Age: 54

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Don't know I haven't made it that far yet

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Guardian45 Follow
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How ever long it takes.

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I always kiss on first see if there is spark

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I don't know. It happens when it happens.

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Anonymous
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at the first date

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- rebeliouse
  
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  anything further on first date?
  
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crazybastard Follow
Xper 4 Age: 36

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wtf? one date man

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krin_m Follow
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I have kissed on first dates.

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Xper 3 Age: 21

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Kiss her when you feel like the moment bro

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elizamichale1 Follow
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Zero

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sheikalana Follow
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Maybe 3 or 5.

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5th date.

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- rebeliouse
  
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  wow conservative :D
  
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- Clyde_123
  
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  @rebeliouse lol yeah hehe. I dont want to to give it easily. Hehe.
  
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collie22 Follow
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A half a date

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HeartFullOfGlue Follow
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20..

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BrookeS Follow
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First datr

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Jamie05rhs Follow
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Probably 100.

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CuriousMufuxka Follow
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One or done.

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SonyaLB Follow
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One or two.

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YesToLife Follow
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3 dates

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OddBeMe Follow
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Kiss what?

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In_Trance Follow
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One or two

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EaterPeter Follow
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To-date 😉

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  Five?
  
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1st one...

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1 or 2

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