Ok I went on a second date with this guy and I'm just not into him. he's fine but not someone I want to drop everything for to hang out with. How do I tell him I don't want to see him anymore?
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As a more "mature" dude I get "it" when a girl stops texting and calling within the first 5 dates. It's clear when communication stops that things have gone stale.
Of course some men are more sensitive and might take offence but you're not looking to date them anyways, right?
If you're looking to be more honest and open, and wishing to judge yourself as being "polite", then try something as simple as this in response to your next phone call or text message:
"Oh, hey Rob. Listen, I'm just going to be honest with you... I'm not feeling the chemistry between us despite how great you seem, so I'm not going to waste your time, or my own, with any more dates. It was still fun meeting you, thanks again for the fun. :)"
Perhaps even that's too... friendly.
But overall, from a guy's point of view, either is pretty clear to me: an all-stop to the phone calls, or a polite "rejection" text message is fine. Especially within the 5 date radius.
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