There are many things that could have happened.
Perhaps he has just been really busy? Or maybe he met someone else? It could even be that him and the mother of his kids are talking again and now he is shifting his focus back onto her.
Either way it's hard to know what exactly is going on here. I wouldn't give up right away. Too many people give up on online dating because of stuff like this. Really this could happen in regular meetings too. It's just a part of dating in general. Sometimes people either lose interest or move on to other people and you have to move on and find someone new. It sucks, but at least you two weren't dating for longer or it could be even worse.
This guy had kids, and perhaps he wasn't quite ready for anything yet. Having kids makes things more complicated. I would call him, and see what's up. If he is truly not interested, let it go. At least then you have a chance to meet someone really great who appreciates you!
It took me 8 months to meet my boyfriend online. But I'm glad I found him. We've been together for 2 years now.
Have fun, and keep busy. Finding someone takes time. Online dating can be a useful tool to open you up to people you wouldn't meet otherwise. It doesn't have to be the only way to meet people, but it can help.
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Yeah, it's possible he met someone else or something, but... why don't *you* contact him? It doesn't have to be an act of desperation or anything. Just "Hey! Haven't heard from you in a bit. Are you still interested in going on another date?" Then he'll do one of three things: explain why he's been out of touch and apologize, break things off (hopefully with an explanation), or not respond. If it's either of the last two, then you know to just move on. If this guy had a great time with you, you must be fun and attractive, so you'll find someone else to hit it off with. Hope things work out!
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