All Questions

At what age did you stop celebrating/caring about your birthday?

Just curious because today is mine but I don't really care anymore (and no one else seems to either haha) and don't have any particular plans

Anonymous

(36-45)

My girlfriend left me for stupid reasons please read

she left me claming I'm not good in bed and I don't know how to kiss and I stink! I'm so hurt :( when we were together she used to say the sex was good she can't keep up with me and I'm really clean I shower all the time...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

How to respond to being stood up

I met this girl while shopping at the store where she works. We talked every time I went there and eventually I got her phone number. We have been talking and texting for three months now. I talk to her every time I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Could you date someone with bad social skills?

Ok.. So I loved this guy that I met. But... he does not have good social skills. He wouldn't pick up the phone or text. He doesn't know how to talk in groups. I took him to a Xmas dinner and he kept criticizing the host...

haedis

Xper 4 Age: 35

Shopping & Gifts

Is $60,000 a year good?

I just got a new job that makes $60, 000 a year after a couple years of searching and having to slave away at Tim Hortons and Walmart. A friend of mine told me that I am just wasting my time with $60,000 a year and that...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

Ladies, if I were to buy my girl a Victoria Secret Gift Card for Christmas...

How much should I put on it? She is very blessed in the breast (<--- see what I did there?) so she special orders all her bras, but for like panties and make up and stuff, what's a good gift amount? I've heard no less...

Blackboi2010

Xper 5 Age: 33

Break Up & Divorce

Should I watch Breaking Bad, The Walking Dead, or Greys Anatomy on Netflix?

cant decide what I wanna get into! help! I've heard good things about all three

Anonymous

(36-45)

How bad is to have a shaved head as a guy? (bald)

So my hair is thinning and sooner or later will come the time that I will have to shave my head. I am not too concerned regarding this but I know women pretty much are less attracted to bald (shaved head) men. I am just...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a guy cares about your opinion, does he like you?

Say you call him weird, or make another statement, and he gets really offended Or saying stuff you're really mean or he will bring up that comment a week later

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Is it wrong that my Girlfriend gives her best friends more attention than me?

is it wrong that my Girlfriend gives her best friends more attention than me? 1. like when I call her & we would be talking but then she would hang up on me.. But when I call her back she would say o.. sorry my bff call...

Aar0n83

Xper 5 Age: 43

Shopping & Gifts

He asked me to spend New Years with him. Does that mean anything?

I've been dating this guy for 6 weeks and it's going very well. He just recently asked me to spend New Years Eve with him. He's not my boyfriend. Is it considered normal to see a guy for New Years? Or is it special?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Help, this problem has last for 22 years and I'm fed up.

[Sorry for the long story, I'm really suffering] It's about my dad. He married my mom 22 years ago, he worked for only one year and then stopped working. So my mom's been working for 21 years to pay for our studying...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

What do guys think about highlights?

So do guys like it when a girl decides to get highlights in her hair? I personally would like to get highlights... I have light brown hair, and I'd love to get highlights that are like one shade lighter than my natural...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did Taylor swift sing if I die young?

i heard it and was wondering why she sing it any one know why?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Bad boy with a heart of gold?

I Love to party a lot. I'm a DJ and a tattoo artist with the typical "bad boy" look, tats, piercings, mohawk, etc. But, I totally respect women. I don't sleep around...much. I'm looking for a serious relationship. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What are you supposed to say when a girl asks if she is fat?

my girlfriend and I were playing about, I just lovingly grabbed her belly (not really overhang, she isn't obese just a little that pops out) she stopped and asked me "do you think I'm fat?". I told her "yes, but not that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What makes a guy cute vs hot?

What is it about a guy that makes him cute..? What it is about a guy that makes him hot..? What makes a guy cute vs hot? Oh, and which is better?!?!

brandon8899

Xper 5 Age: 35

I want to seduce a man who's in his mid-thirties (11 years older than me). Is it any different?

The question says it all. As men get older, are they seduced differently?

Anonymous

(36-45)

How can I survive "hell week" in fraternity in college?

So I'm going to be pledging a fraternity in college and I know that they haze for sure but of course to stay out of trouble they all say that they are "non hazing" yeah bs to that lol. So during last few weeks of school...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Do you believe a womanizer or player can fall in love?

So from personal opinion, do you think they could? I personal don't. If they "do" they will loose interest after a while Opinions? Also: how do you know his feelings are real?

Anonymous

(30-35)

I really like this guy but he is an conservative christian, what to do?

Now, let me begin by saying that I have nothing against Christians. I am one myself, I am just not conservative. I met this guy on campus and we hit if off well because he wasn't like most guys I had met. He was very...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you have the same conversations over and over?

For most people, there are a select few others that they see or talk to all the time; parents, siblings, friends, extended family members, significant others, children, etc. I noticed today, while Christmas shopping with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

How come people say I have big muscles and it looks small to me?

People telling me YOU HAVE BIG ARMS. but when I look at the mirror its looks small to me. This is making me crazy because it looks really small. my arms are only 17" its not like 22 or something

Anonymous

(30-35)

If a guy doesn't kiss you on your first date, does that mean he's not interested?

The date went well... He paid. He said that he really enjoyed himself and hoped that I did too. He drove me home. But he never kissed me. I felt like we had chemistry, but he never made the move. That being said, he's 34...

HotPepper302

Xper 4 Age: 37

My boyfriend and I hardly see each other... should I just call it quits?

We've been together for six months, the first two were long-distance. A couple months ago, he got a full-time job, and we work opposite schedules (I work a normal 9-5 M-Fri, and he works weekends and mostly nights). He...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend likes other girls Facebook pictures?

I try not to take it personally but it still bothers me. Should I be concerned at all or am I just fretting over the small stuff. Guys and Girls advice would be great!

loveless123

Xper 6 Age: 32

Guys, what do you think of a girl that likes kickboxing?

thinking about taking classes at my gym, asked for gloves for Christmas

Anonymous

(36-45)

A coworker who spanked me now avoids me, any advice as to why and what I can do?

I had posted a couple questions about this coworker that used his spanked me at work, then a week later apologized about doing it, even though everything was cool and I hadn't said anything about it. Now he sort of...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How do you tell if a girl is into you when talking to her?

What are the signs that a girl is into you when talking to her? I usually ask her about herself but making an assumption just so I can get her talking and see what she likes. It always seems like my conversations are one...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

What do girls consider rugged manly?

Why do you Ladies always say you prefer rugged men, I mean literaly all. But than you only name pretty or boyish looking male celebs you find hot or like to have a fling with. I consider Channing Tatum, Johnny Depp,...

VillaD_Rock

Xper 5 Age: 38

Why can't I get this guy off my mind?

What does it mean when I constantly think about this guy , He's a friend of a friend . I've had conversations , And hung out with him a few times as a group . But I really don't know him like that , I only see him...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

So, sorry if this comes off as bitchy but.....

How do I get my friend to shut up? lol See, we're at college, and all of my other friends go home for the weekend. So it's just myself and her all weekend. If I yell at her for it, odds are, she won't talk to me. She's...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why does he always sit right behind me in class?

he always sit right behind me in class or sometimes off to the side of the room? but usually behind me so I can't see him

Anonymous

(36-45)