All Questions

Girls how often do you fart?

or you never fart? and do you fart near your friends, guys or girls? do you laugh or your friends laugh when you fart? do you get embarrassed by the smell?

humanbeing

Xper 3 Age: 36

Girls, is putting on lip gloss in front of a guy sign of affection?

I was chatting to a girl at a bar. The convo was going pretty well. She kept playing with her hair and putting lip gloss on now and then in front of me. Is this a sign she's interested or she's more worried about...

spartan123

Xper 5 Age: 42

How do introverted/shy girls show it when they are flirting with guys?

How do introverted/shy girls show it when they are flirting with guys.

megamanx2

Xper 3 Age: 38

Dating

First date. What to wear to a wine bar?

I am going on a first date to a wine bar. I have never been to one before and don't know what to wear. What are your suggestions on what to wear to a wine bar? Thanks in advance for your suggestions!

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is a defined jawline? Is it bad to have if you're a girl?

What does having a define jawline mean? Is it good?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you think the late Tony Soprano (R.I.P.) was a true Alpha Male? Did he have Alpha traits, qualities?

R.I.P. James Gandolfini, but for some odd reason, Tony Soprano has really come across as an Alpha Male to me, I've become a big fan of The Sopranos

Anonymous

(36-45)

Wrong to Strip and Humiliate Friend?

I'm a 19 year old girl and a few friends of mine from college (1 other girl and 2 guys all 19-20 years old) went to visit a friend that graduated all ready. Well she's kind of a neat freak about her apartment and I think...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Naked pictures on my husband's phone...Does this mean my husband would cheat on me?

Me and my husband has had a few ups and downs in our marriage but always seemed to get passed them all some how. Now I was browsing through his phone today and seen where he had been looking at other woman naked. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why won't she accept my friend request?

I know her well and in person she always says high to me but I sent her a friend request and and message and no response at all, she's clearly updating her Facebook account.. only thing I can think of was she's mad I...

1-3-2-4

Yoda Age: 41

Is it normal to cry after rejection?

its all I could do cry and cry cry and crrrry and people were hugging me and trying to cheer me up and I am supposed to be the happy girl

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys: Is a small mouth kissable?

I don't have big lips. Do you like kissing thin and delicate lips?

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is the difference between chill out & hang out?

Is their a big difference between chill out & hang out?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does anyone think that Confidence and personality is all that matters are overrated?

I believe confidence and personality are overrated because physical attractiveness and money is still extremely important to women. Its so funny that certain studies have shown that women mature faster than men yeah...

jmurk

Xper 3 Age: 46

Why did he bite my ear?

i went to a party last night, with my best friends, one of them has already stolen a kiss from me twice... and last night he didn't try to kiss me or anything, he just sang to me right into my ear, then hugged me pretty...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do some girls act giddy and sweet when they like a guy, and other girls act pissy and rude?

Some girls giggle and smile a lot when they like a guy, and act pretty sweet. Other girls are really disrespectful and insulting around guys they like. Does the difference in behavior (sweet or b*tchy) have to do with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

In dating, men work harder because they lack leverage, not because there's a double standard - Thoughts?

I'd like to see people's general thoughts on this I was perusing through YouTube today and I stumbled on something interesting. So there are 3 links I'm going to post below. Basically in one video, you have a fairly...

Janson

Guru Age: 35

Do girls like empathetic guys?

I guess you could say I have a sensitive soul. I'm not a pushover or spineless or anything, but I tend to be in touch with my emotional side. Example, crying babies make me upset. When I see or hear a baby crying it...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why does Kelly Clarkson Sound like she's yelling in her songs?

I swear in most of her songs there's a part where she has to hit high notes and instead of sounding like singing it just sounds like she's yelling.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Shopping & Gifts

A guy says "hey woman" in the same context someone would say "whats up" or "hey man"

Ladies is this somehow derogatory? Buddy saw a text and said its bad thing to say

Koldhearted

Yoda Age: 36

Why does OkCupid seem so dead lately?

Sent 100ish messages in the past two days and like none looked at my profile. They usually look and just don't respond, but it's like no one is even noticing lately. odd

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do some black or mixed race people tan?

This does not make any sense. I have heard of black people (considered light skin), but they still have a fair amount of melanin in their skin. Their skin tone is yellow, or golden brown. And they talk about how they...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Have you ever skinny dipped?

Have you ever gone skinny dipping? What did you think of it. If you haven't, would you?

Enideqa

Yoda Age: 40

Society & Politics

When watching a horror movie in the dark, which scares you more?

When watching a horror movie in the dark, are you scared more if the audio is on speakers or if you’re listening with headphones/earphones?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys like girls that listen to rock?

I'm in looooove with all the great old rock bands, Led Zeppelin, Aerosmith, Deep purple, Def Leppard etc. Do you think that's hot or weird? what is the first thought that goes through your mind when you hear that she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why does my ex boyfriend call me honey?

We dated for 5 years and broke up like 6 weeks ago. Lately, we've been seeing each other, but nothing romantic. He even said last week he doesn't want to give me "wrong ideas." Yet, he asks me for help, invites me...

LynnWrubel

Xper 5 Age: 52

What do you girls honestly think when a guy approaches you?

I've read here time and again that girls think they come across as needy/easy/only for sex/ etc etc if they approach a guy (approaching = talking to a guy they don't know). But I wonder what girls think when guys do the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you want to spend all your time with your girlfriend?

Guys, do you want to spend all of your free time with your girlfriend? Do you cancel all other plans if she calls? My boyfriend of 4 months wants to spend all his free time with me. He said I am the first person that he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Did anyone take their road test at Seaview in Brooklyn?

This question is for people who's taken their road test in Brooklyn particularly in Seaview or to whoever who heard about seaview. Is the road test at Seaview easy or hard? I basically have one shot to take the road...

Captivatingbeauty

Xper 6 Age: 34

What does I'm really flattered mean?

I like this guy a lot, and I've been talking to him sometimes, and the first time he talked he mentioned that he was "kinda seeing a girl" a couple of weeks later I told him I liked him.. I kinda went on a rant and...

Anonymous

(30-35)