All Questions

What does it mean when a guy pokes you a lot?

I recently noticed a guy, and he seems to have noticed me too. We haven't talked much but he walked by me and poked my side. The next day he sat next to me at work and started talking to me more. I stood up and was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Meeting my boyfriend's teenage daughter - any advice?

I'm meeting my boyfriends teenage daughter for the first time this weekend any advise. I've never dated anyone with a teenager before and I'm a little worried about what she'll think of me.

Lizzielu

Xper 6 Age: 45

Should I be worried if my boyfriend goes on The Chive daily?

I have been assured by a close guy friend that I mean more to my boyfriend than a pair, but I just can get over the pictures that are on The Chive. How would I address this situation?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do people really like BBW/BHM?

I keep reading/hearing about big beautiful women or big handsome men or FAs lol is that like a really a thing? I just never heard of anything like that. Tell me what you think

ChLC23

Xper 5 Age: 32

Break Up & Divorce

Boyfriend hasn't spoken to me in 3 weeks?

I put forth more effort than my boyfriend does. I initiate every single conversation. So I decided to back off and see what he does. ... Three weeks have gone by, and he still hasn't said anything to me... We've been...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, if you bent over and your butt crack was showing, would you want someone to let you know?

I see it all the time, and I just want to go and let them know about it, but then I wonder what if she calls me a creeper? or it might be awkward. I just want to help her legitimately. So girls would you want someone...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Some stranger groped my butt.

I was groped by some random stranger on the bus. That person actually groped my butt. He was just accidentally touching them. Then I thought it was just the bus being really cramp. Then he actually went on to put his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Playing hard to get: Short texts vs ignoring?

I'm a guy and trying to get out of the friend zone with a girl. The only way to do this is NOT be a friend, real simple. So should I either ignore some texts, or respond with short responses that won't continue a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Two great dates, plans for a third...then NOTHING? WTH??

So confused. I guess I have to get used to online dating. Maybe it's not for me. OK, so I had a great first two dates with this guy. We have a ton in common. First date lasted over 4 hours...was dinner date, we closed the...

bridgetjones5

Xper 5 Age: 50

He rejected me but I know he likes me?

Me and this guy have known each other for a year now.. we had a class last year and he would always flirt with me he even asked me if he liked me once but I didn't then so I said no. this year we have another class...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Can cheating be a one time only mistake? Or is it a is of a bigger problem?

Is it possible to still love someone if you've cheated on them? Can it be a one time mistake that can be forgiven and worked through or is it an automatic end?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Gorgeous vs Handsome? Which is better?

Recently I have been going out a lot more than I have in the past to nightclubs and bars. I've had many women come up to me and say that I am absolutely gorgeous, then they usually rub my chest and give me a sexy look....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Escaping friend zone: Pull away or become close first?

Got friend zoned by a chick because she's been "Talking" to another fellow for quite some time now and they're going to be official real soon. For the past couple weeks I've been acting like just a friend to her, and she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it a bad sign when your crush puts you on limited profile?

I know I shouldn't read too much into Facebook. But I was so sure he was interested, so I added him and now I feel like he thinks I'm a stalker. What's the point of accepting a friend if they can't interact with you any...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Never heard back after great first date, why?

I met this girl online and we really hit it off. We spent the week texting and talking and planned to meet for a date over the weekend. We went out for coffee and we talked for hours. So much that we lost track of time...

mattychef

Xper 5 Age: 42

Should I just show up over at his house?

So for the last few weeks I have been causally seeing this guy, and I really like him. But for the last few days he has been ignoring me. I have talked to him, but at the same time he ignores me. He says he will call me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do I bore him or what, or is he just doing other things?

SO this guy I like, and he says he likes me back. We been talking for about 2 months now and we text/talk just about every day :p. But My question is, there are time's when he don't text me and he'll wait hours and hours...

Erica34

Yoda Age: 35

Society & Politics

Should I tell him I hacked his fb (& what I found)?

I've always been a firm believer in respecting each others privacy in a relationship. I've never went through my boyfriend phone or his Facebook until now. I've been in a relationship with Josh for a year and a half and...

agvangiller

Xper 5 Age: 33

Break Up & Divorce

My ex ruined our relationship, why does he have to ruin the life I have after it too?!

Okay, this is a long story but I'll keep it as concise as possible. Basically I was in a committed relationship with this guy for about a year. I was deeply in love with him, he said he was with me, and we were so happy....

MelliMelx

Xper 5 Age: 36

What's hotter: Being pale or being tanned?

Girls, do you prefer a guy who's tanned or a pale (but not anemically pale) guy? Guys, same question.

craZy_4_musiC_o0

Xper 6 Age: 33

Girl asked me to go to a party, what does this mean?

We know each other from work. But recently she got fired, and we started talking via what's app. That's been going for about a week or so. And she then suddenly asked me out to a party. She's throwing the party...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do girls like flexible guys?

I mean physical flexibility, I do martial arts and gymnastics so I'm quite flexible and I wanted to know girls' opinions ^^

Dongboom

Xper 5 Age: 34

Family & Friends

How to impress a friend I haven't seen in a while?

So basically, I liked this guy in high school but we're friends so I never told him. We graduated last summer and I haven't seen him since August because I went away for college. I moved back home since then and I will...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys: Girls drinking, is it a turn off for you?

Do you assume girls who drink are easy or is it normal for you?

desidoll

Master Age: 37

Family & Friends

I want him so bad but I don't want him to know!

So I have a really nice guy friend and I like him. Before I just needed a friend in my life and I'm happy I have him in my life now, but now I'm starting to feel attraction towards him. Like when he comes in for a hug, I...

Miyani11

Xper 7 Age: 38

Relationships

If my boyfriend almost kissed another girl should I stay?

So I've only been in a relationship with him for 4 months (we started as flatmates and still live together), and he went away for the weekend, got really drunk and tried to kiss a girl he had a crush on ages ago. She...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What shade of blond is Rita Ora's hair in this picture and what is her skin tone?

Because I want to color my hair blond and Rita Ora has the same skin tone as me. Is it her foundation perhaps? Because I don't wear foundation. link she is gorgeous! What shade of blond is this below(the one with...

ragazza91

Xper 5 Age: 34

What does it mean when a guy keep staring at you for like 5 sec from a distance?

As I was walking some guy that was sitting down kept staring straight at me. He didn't bother looking away but he was making it known. I looked once but then I stopped looking. He stared for like 6 sec like allowing me to...

dartmai

Xper 3 Age: 34

Girl's Behavior

Dreaming of someone means they're thinking of you too?

is it true if you dream about someone its because they are thinking of you, or they dreamed of you too? (I keep dreaming of this girl that I think is into me too -__-) call it my hopes getting too high

jlizaso

Xper 5 Age: 33

How do you respond to late night text messsages?

I got a message from the guy that lives next door the other night around 10:30 asking me what I was up to. He had asked me to hang out with him the other week, and I told him no so I ignored this message. Was it...

Anonymous

(30-35)