Gave my hairdresser ( who I have a massive crush on) a gift ( not sure on reaction)?

[Anonymous]

So for the last year I had been in a real bad relationship with my ex gf and because I didn't have anyone else to talk to about this I would verbally unleash everything to my hot hairdresser every week and a half during my haircut appointment.I feel like we have this real connection now and feel like she is purposely cutting my hair as slow as she can to give us more time together and also as long as she can so I come back sooner (i could be wrong by this but she knows I like it as short as her fingers can do but it's not as short as she used to do it). she told me once a few months ago that she loves animals and specifically has a thing for owls so I thought maybe i could buy her a little owl toy or something to show I listen and remember things about her and also if there was a doubt in her mind I wasn't interested in her that this might help her figure it out.There are also a load of reasons I can't just tell her or ask her for her number like the fact that there are her coworkers next to us and will overhear, the fact she is working and needs to be professional and she might even just think of me as a client nothing more in which case if I asked her out and she said no that would automatically mean it would be to awkward for me to continue going to her hair salon which would be the worst as at the very least I want to be her friend.Anyway I bought her the cutest little toy owl (cheap but cute), I said "hey I have a gift for you" she said "me? And I said "yes you have been a pair of ears for me for a year so I bought u something and I saw it and I thought it was to cute so I had to buy it for you":) I left it in the plastic bag the shop gave me and I crumpled it up and put it in my pocket I gave it to her straight from my pocket in the crumpled bag she laughed smiled said thank you and then just put it on the table next to her and I'm pretty sure she did not look in the bag to see what it was, anyone have there thoughts on what that might mean? Thanks

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So quick update I just went to get my haircut and we never mentioned anything about me giving her the gift, does that mean anything? The chemistry Was still there and she was laughing a lot and we were really getting along as usual.God girls are hard

[RainbowUnicorns]

She might like you... She seems like she is trying to b professional but her crush for you is seeping through the act. But we could be wrong. LooK for signs! Is she sweeet? Does she complement you? Does se giggle? Does she remember things about you? Does she share (verbally) parts of her life with you? Does she smile when she sees you? Observe to see if she treats you in a special way in comparison to a few other peaople. See if her voice gets higher around you, if it does the more of a sign she likes you! Maybe give her your email? A phone number shows too much of liking her, but if you are like "I am going to be busy this week but I wanna let you know about something new I wanna try with my hair, still. Maybe email me? Can I write it down for you?" Or something like that. U can Google more signs of her liking you, it would help =) Oh and if she tales your email that good! U can now message her! But make sure that her boss doesn't have to read them between you guys. If she doesn't don't worry she probably isn't allowed to if so. Good luck! =D

[Asker]

Yes she giggles and does all of the above , but I felt kinda hurt she didn't look at my owl toy and put it down I didn't let her know that I quickly changed the subject but at The moment when I see her put the bag down in the corner of my eye I felt really stupid. Next time I go in will probably confirm if in a stupid customer or she is feeling that electricity as well lol thanks for the response I really appreciate it.

[RainbowUnicorns]

No problem! But of I were her, I'd do the same thing! She sounds like she likes you, but is trying to be professional so that's why she didn't open it. I would do the same because I'd want to respect you and open it privately where I can really enjoy it and fangirl over you! Lol I don't think that indicates that she doesn't like you at all, it looks like it indicates respect =) if she said thank you she probably appreciates it, and if yes to everything she could very well REALLY like you but feels that she indeed has to stay professional. Try the email thing! =D and don't lose hope =) it looks like she was saving it for later as a surprise, and she didn't want to embarrass you for she didn't know if you wanted her to open it there. Plus I would be like ''what if I don't like it? What can I say?" N there's the pressure of how to react. See if she talks to u about it next time you see her. She might really appreciate it! If she doesn't bring it up first though that's a not so good sign

[RainbowUnicorns]

Oh and that was really sweet of you to get her that, if she rejects you she's missing out, so don't be torn of she does =)

[Anonymous]

sorry I'm still laughing at the fact that you're a dude and you call it your hairdresser

[Asker]

What else would I call her the person who cuts my hair when it gets long? :))