Girls, if you like a guy, would you add him on Facebook or wait for him to add you?

[Anonymous]

There are some girls who have flirted with me but we haven't exchanged contact details. I notice that they're friends with a lot of other guys on Facebook, but they didn't add me.
I'm not active on Facebook, but I've noticed that these girls are active and comment on my other friend's posts, give them likes etc. But then I wonder, how come they didn't add me?

So question..if a girl likes a guy, does she add him on Facebook or wait for him?
There are guys like me who hardly use it.

[Unnatti]

I have like a MONSTER ego, so the last time I probably sent a friend request was like 2011. And I barely accept requests either, unless I know the person.
So, no. I wouldn't send the guy a request. Even if we've met a million times, I'd wait for him to make the first move, because that's how I am with everyone. Girls included.

But I know some girls who make the first moves, ranging from girls who get a lot of boy attention and girls who get none. So it really depends. Earlier the guy had to make the first move, but now things are progressing.

[Asker]

Lol..things are getting worse for guys these days, unless they're guys in the top 20% of looks/influence.
For me, it's not so much about ego, but rather, I'm more of a give and take type (that includes respect, interest, courtesy etc.)

[Unnatti]

Well, if the girl in question isn't making the first move, but still has many boys on her Facebook, maybe it's because they added her? Girls are literally flooded with requests from guys!
You click one photo with a friend and get 4 requests from her friends within an hour! It's just how things work these days. People who weren't ballsy enough to go talk to girls they were interested in can now get closer to them with a click of a button. And this way, they can try their luck on numerous girls at the same time, haha

[lumos]

Personally, I like adding guys that I like on Facebook. But that's just me, so I can't speak for other girls. In some cases I might wait for him to see if he'd add me first, but I would have no problem with adding him anyway if he didn't. It's just Facebook.

[Dzindzer]

Depends I don't have a problem adding him if it's suggested by Facebook and I know him as a friend. If I am flirting with him then I wouldn't add him, I would wait for him to add me. However I don't use Facebook much so it's not a good way to contact me.

[quantumdefender]

I am a guy who hates stereo types. I hate the fact women still expect men to ask them out. I have 30 people on Facebook, and they all found me.
if women want to be chased, they should adopt dogs!

[tiffany101]

If a girl has a crush on you, she WILL add you.
I might be a little off the track here, but girls generally initiate with guys they have a crush on.
If the guy initiates, he may come across as sleazy or desperate, or just a friend. (unless he's a guy we dream about)

Many girls, however, consider a male initiating something to be an act of chivalry. I don't. Unless you're in the top 10% of attractive guys, I don't think a girl would initiate.

[Anonymous]

Depends on how well I know him, how long it's been, and how much I like them. I generally do the "old school" thing, and I expect the guys to make the first move. Including just asking to be my friend.

[justanotheruser]

I don't add guys on Facebook , even if i like them. But , i MIGHT add them if we were friends and our friendship is still developing