What is with (some) women's obsession with attention? This girl doesn't like me, I get it but what I don't get is WHY she is so preoccupied with how I talk to her, how I answer, how much enthusiasm I add to my greetings.
I understand she might be uncomfortable because she knows I like her or whatever but when I'm minding my own business and talking to other people, she feel the need to tease me or cut into my conversations so I pay attention to her.
WHen I try to talk to her, she is (most of the time) cold and sarcastic and kinda rude. WHen I get fed up with it and try to avoid her, she calls it attitude and when I try to be polite and NOT ignore her when she talks to me, she gets mad and tells me that If I'm going to answer to her like that, she would much rather be ignored and when she tries to initiate a conversation, she will guilt trip me by saying how she is trying to be nice and I'm not receptive of it and act like a jerk.
When I ask her why she acts like this, she goes on and on bringing up things I have done months or years ago and she tells me that until I respond to ALL the points she brought up, we have nothing to talk about but then if I ignore her, she will start talking to me again and trying to get my attention.
Why does she care so much about how I act towards her? If she is SO NICE to everybody else, high fives and misses them, why does she care about how I act? Even when there's more people she can get attention from, she just focuses on ME
I understand she might be uncomfortable because she knows I like her or whatever but when I'm minding my own business and talking to other people, she feel the need to tease me or cut into my conversations so I pay attention to her.
WHen I try to talk to her, she is (most of the time) cold and sarcastic and kinda rude. WHen I get fed up with it and try to avoid her, she calls it attitude and when I try to be polite and NOT ignore her when she talks to me, she gets mad and tells me that If I'm going to answer to her like that, she would much rather be ignored and when she tries to initiate a conversation, she will guilt trip me by saying how she is trying to be nice and I'm not receptive of it and act like a jerk.
When I ask her why she acts like this, she goes on and on bringing up things I have done months or years ago and she tells me that until I respond to ALL the points she brought up, we have nothing to talk about but then if I ignore her, she will start talking to me again and trying to get my attention.
Why does she care so much about how I act towards her? If she is SO NICE to everybody else, high fives and misses them, why does she care about how I act? Even when there's more people she can get attention from, she just focuses on ME
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