how to react when your crush doesn`t accept your friend request on fb?

[Anonymous]

should i make some distance or pretend nothing happened?

[Hannah591]

This actually happened with my current boyfriend. I met him in person, then added him on Facebook. It took him a week to add me and he said it was because at first he didn't think anything of it, he was busy but he also didn't recognise me from my profile picture, but didn't think to look through other pics!
Whilst I was waiting for him to accept, I didn't really think too much - I didn't want to overthink. After a few days though, I accepted the fact that the feeling was probably not mutual or he wants to stay professional (he's my instructor) and not add clients on Facebook. I basically didn't get my hopes up and prepared myself for disappointment so I wouldn't let myself get hurt. But when he accepted and spoke to me, I was over joyed and then our love blossomed!

[LostOnLove]

This gives me hope lol. I'm in a similar situation where he sees me as a client. I just added him the other day, and now I'm waiting for him to accept.

[Anonymous]

Maybe bring It up is at why don't you accept my request and why and see what they say. My crush accepted my request in the end but it took awhile. I think there playing hard to get if they don't accept your request.

[Asker]

i don`t think this is a case when i saw him after he didn`t accept my fb request and he smiled at me , he was waiting for me to come over him which i didn`t

[Opinion Owner]

Hm well if he smiled which he did he's being nice and not making a big deal out of you adding him on Facebook that's a sign of him being mature about it and being nice but I don't know why he won't accept your request on Facebook. Maybe he wanted you to come over so he could talk to you... :)

[Asker]

well , it`s hard because i`m really shy :( i thought maybe we can start from fb then it`s going to be easier because we know each other more , then

[Opinion Owner]

It's cute to be shy but I've got guy friends an they like straightforward girls

[Opinion Owner]

Just go up to him and start talking to him and tray me get closer to him a a friend and start from there

[Asker]

i don`t see him that much at school :(

[nak00]

How long did it take for them to accept your request?

[bunnahies]

'I DONT LIKE YOU ANYMORE <\3'
i wouldn't say pretend. id say give it up. if he didn't accept, he probably doesn't like you :(

[rUinSAYAN]

I'm not that Facebook guy either. I never get along with girls on fb/all my relationships crushed with it. I don't want everyone to know about me with no effort paid talking to me. I even deleted most the information of my last years I had on fb. I read some answers here and you should not think anything about it. he smiled at you and perhaps if you smile back and stay cool he will come, you can still be open for other guys too and you will figure out that you don't need to set all your hopes in one card. if you don't want my advice im ok with it

[Asker]

actually it was a good advice , thanks

[Anonymous]

It's nothing to worry about. Facebook (or any other social networking site/app) is essentially meaningless for gauging someone's interest in you. I had a relationship for more than a year, and neither of us added the other on FB. It really doesn't matter. When one of you asks the other out and you line up a date, that's what really matters.

[Asker]

so u think i should ask him out directly?

[Opinion Owner]

It depends on how likely you think it is that he'll ask you out. If he needs some prodding, you can either ask him out or give him a hint like, "Why haven't you asked me out?"

[Asker]

how a girl can ask a guy out without looking like creepy?

[rUinSAYAN]

do smalltalk first? I don't know

[kambo_trick3y]

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[JellyBeans77]

pretend nothing happened. actually i have a policy that if a guy doesn't add me, in like 2 hours tops o delete the sent friend request lol

[Asker]

then how did you react when you saw him after that?

[JellyBeans77]

haha i assumed that he didn't see my friend request, but one time it happened that a guy gave me wwierd looks the whole week lol i was hoping he might think that i added him accidently :D

[Lauren2410]

I do the same with friend requests haha.

[JellyBeans77]

haha yeah its better then feeling embarassed about yourself, right? and i think that u should give some sort of signal to guy and let him add you..that feeling is so amazingg! :D

[Asker]

did you do that? i don`t see him in uni that much , so i thought maybe fb can be helpful to get to know him more and he didn`t accept that , i don`t think he would add me at this moment , i also deleted my request

[JellyBeans77]

well if he hasn't added u probably he's ignoring you and i can't stand guys who have such huge egos and theyre so full of themselves..he seems like an idiot and if u dont see him that often then even if he adds u , you won't be able to spend time with him so won't that be bad?

[Asker]

he was nice with me and kinda waiting for me to approach him after he didn`t accept my request so i think fb is not that serious for him , i think if we get closer we arrange some more time together , it`s not a problem

[JellyBeans77]

yeah that must be better and mostly guys just skim through fb so yeah ur right. hope it works out for you :)

[Asker]

thank u

[JellyBeans77]

anytime :)

[Tinkbelle]

Its been two months, addfriend then cancel. All of my friends is already been mutual friends on him on fb but me? 😞 One time my friend added him 2 minutes later he accepted the request. But not on me? It's been 2 and 1/2 months already. I decided to cancel the request😁

[sovetskii13]

Forget about it. Pretend it never happened and that you don't care.

[Anonymous]

crushed. haha

I think I'd get the message and just try to stop crushing on him.

[DodgersGM]

Personally, I wouldn't even think twice about it.

[Asker]

but i like him

[DodgersGM]

I wouldn't let it discourage you. :)

[findingdreamland]

Nothing, give him some time.

[mandira]

pretend nothing happened.

[PANDAmonium]

Move on would be my advice.