This actually happened with my current boyfriend. I met him in person, then added him on Facebook. It took him a week to add me and he said it was because at first he didn't think anything of it, he was busy but he also didn't recognise me from my profile picture, but didn't think to look through other pics!
Whilst I was waiting for him to accept, I didn't really think too much - I didn't want to overthink. After a few days though, I accepted the fact that the feeling was probably not mutual or he wants to stay professional (he's my instructor) and not add clients on Facebook. I basically didn't get my hopes up and prepared myself for disappointment so I wouldn't let myself get hurt. But when he accepted and spoke to me, I was over joyed and then our love blossomed!
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Maybe bring It up is at why don't you accept my request and why and see what they say. My crush accepted my request in the end but it took awhile. I think there playing hard to get if they don't accept your request.
'I DONT LIKE YOU ANYMORE <\3'
i wouldn't say pretend. id say give it up. if he didn't accept, he probably doesn't like you :(
I'm not that Facebook guy either. I never get along with girls on fb/all my relationships crushed with it. I don't want everyone to know about me with no effort paid talking to me. I even deleted most the information of my last years I had on fb. I read some answers here and you should not think anything about it. he smiled at you and perhaps if you smile back and stay cool he will come, you can still be open for other guys too and you will figure out that you don't need to set all your hopes in one card. if you don't want my advice im ok with it
It's nothing to worry about. Facebook (or any other social networking site/app) is essentially meaningless for gauging someone's interest in you. I had a relationship for more than a year, and neither of us added the other on FB. It really doesn't matter. When one of you asks the other out and you line up a date, that's what really matters.
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pretend nothing happened. actually i have a policy that if a guy doesn't add me, in like 2 hours tops o delete the sent friend request lol
Forget about it. Pretend it never happened and that you don't care.
crushed. haha
I think I'd get the message and just try to stop crushing on him.Personally, I wouldn't even think twice about it.
Nothing, give him some time.
pretend nothing happened.
Move on would be my advice.
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