Most Helpful Guy
I don't disrespect them. If my gf was out somewhere, I wouldn't want her to wear something too revealing. I think that's for my eyes and I would like to keep it that way. When we are home, she can dress as revealing as she wants. She shouldn't be surprised when I grab in a bear hug and take her to the bedroom and satisfy our natural desires.
Most Helpful Girl
It's just a difference in what you're after. I don't think there is anything wrong with a girl dressing to play up her assets, or even look sexy, when she's an adult. Clearly you can go overboard, but shorts and tanks when worn appropriately aren't that bad or worthy of disrespect in my eyes.
That being said, be yourself. If you like your style and feel more comfortable with that, then stick with it and wait for the guy who appreciates it. You wouldn't want guys to go after you for reasons that aren't truly "you."