My best friends boyfriend came on to me what should I do...?

[Anonymous]

Long story short I use to like my best friends boyfriend long before she gave him the time of day, well we were playing spin the bottle while camping and our first kiss tanked it was HORRIBLE. So later that night when we were all in our tent and drunk!! He pulled me in next to him after everyone went to bed and told me that I needed to make it up to him sometime in the future... Well I didn't think he was serious. So he went on vacation for a week in florida and while on the way back he texted me and said "Really looking forward to seeing you ;)" I freaked a bit, and when he came back he picked me up and we went to dinner alone like we had a millions time before, but after dinner he leaned in and we kissed... And I didn't stop him at first. After I did I told him he needed to take me home and I haven't told my friend... After that we talked one night and I told him how in the past I had feelings for him, and I couldn't risk them coming back. And he told me he already knew I liked him, and that's why he kissed me to let me know he liked me back.. I don't know what to do or say... Help please I don't want to come off as a bad friend. But please help me.

Stay away from him you slut

Tell your friend she deserves to know

Dont tell here whatever you do keep it a secret

[lacelover20]

You are not a slut. The fact that you pulled away and told him to take you home because of your best friend makes me so proud of you and I wish you were my friend! Seriously! You seem a little naive though and thats okay I will help clear thia up for you cuz as far as im concerned the answer is obvious to me. he's dating your bestfriend and he tried to come on to you? Does that show he's a good man to be with? Obviously this guys a player and a cheater for one. Second he knows you liked him he said it himself. I dont hink he really likes you. I think he think he thinks your dumb and naive and you will do whatever with him as long as he tells you that. Let me make this clear to you no man and no I promice your friends bf is not the exception would try comming on to a girl while he had a gf. Excsially when its her bestfriend. That shows he doesn't value your feelings or hers cuz he obviously knows what would happened if she found out and what that would do to both of you and it also shows he's unfaithful. If he can do that to ykur best friend what makes you think its any different with you? Trust me he knows what he's doing. Dont be so niave. she's your best friend rather you used to like him or not your bestfriend is with him respect her enough not to back stab her. There are plenty of fiah in the sea and this guy is not a good one. he's a tornato that comes and goes leavig chaos for the people who got caught in his distruction. Id tell yur friend what he did. Tell her you wouldn't do that to her. Your bestfriend will be the one thats there in the end not him. Anyone from the outside looking in coukd see that. He wants his cake and eat it to. He wants sex from you and to date ykur bestfriend and he will feed u bullshit how he doesn't wanna hurt her so u have to be a secret. No he is already hurting her he doesn't care he just wants two women. he's disgusting. Stay away from him and tell your best friend! Make sure you tell her!

[lacelover20]

No good man*

[sweatgirl]

going out with him alone you should have known was going to be a mistake. anyways, you should tell her what happened. I would make sure you tell her in person and not over the phone. that way she can read your body language and see that you are truly sorry about happened. its better that she knows that her boyfriend was trying to make the moves on you. I wouldn't make it a big deal though. keep the conversation short and hope that she doesn't ask to many questions.

[Mariajones]

Tell your friend but explain it to her just like this. She'll understand more since you used to have a thing for him. Also give her space because she'll be pissed at first. Him on the other hand if you plan on dating , be careful because obviously he's a cheated I don't know if this like a special circumstance or what but try not to fall to hard until you know he won't cheat on you.

[sawno]

First of all i think you should tell your friend. I don't think you did anything wrong but he is clearly interested to dump or cheat on her and she deserves to know that.

Second its normal to feel feelings after a kiss or after thinking about someone a lot. This doesn't mean you love him. If you want them to go away stop thinking about him (If he pops in your mind thats ok just don't think of anything romantic) and it should go away on its own.

[igofortakenwomen]

Just go for it, you only live once and nothing anyone of us does will ever matter in the truly grand scheme of things.

[lacelover20]

Your going to catch the cold cases of karma. When you have a gf she's probley going to heat on you with one of your friends. Remember the advice you gave to a young naive girl when you start thinking what did you do to deserve this t

[igofortakenwomen]

How do you know she's naive? How presumptuous of you to assume only bad can come of the given situation.

[Asker]

ya... Im not naïve... Thanks though.

[Anonymous]

you don't need to tell her it's a kiss even if it was more sex is just sex.
you and him are friends so it's ok to have sex and kiss.

[lacelover20]

Your a fucking idiot. Yu dont know whags right or wrong because your old its too late for you