Is my best friend putting her boyfriend before me?

[jaythekiller]

My best friend started going out with this guy I'm not very fond of him (that's another story) but I'm okay with their relationship. So me and my friend decided to go out on Saturday to just hang out. I can't hang out that much because I babysit. So my friend tells me that her nd her boyfriend are going on Saturday. The same Saturday we were going to go out. So I point it out nd she said "oh, I thought u said Sunday." So I get a little mad and say just forget it go ahead and go out with ur boy but she says no how about we have a double date (yea, I had a boyfriend) I said okay nd my boyfriend was a little reluctant to go go because he didn't like them too much(again that's another story) so he finally says yes nd we start planning everything. So it's Saturday and I text her that we were gonna come around two because we were gonna meet up at her house. And then she text me about 17 minutes later and says "oh I'm already at his house." And I said what do u mean I thought we were meeting up at ur house nd she said I thought u guys weren't coming. And I said said so does that mean we're not going nd she said ig not but I really wanted u guys to come. So I'm like really mad now she had us plan all of this out and then canceled on us. My boyfriend said that this is y he don't hang with them. So I'm trying to figure out is she putting her boyfriend before me? I've never did it to her I've always told my boyfriend that he can never come between me nd my best friend. But I'm not sure she's doing the same thing. What do I do?

leave her

wait it out

confront her

giver her the cold shoulder

Updates

+1 y

I know she needs to spend time with Her boyfriend and I'm not mad at her for it, but this has been happening for sometime now. Every time I talk to her she always gets swooped up by her boyfriend. I already have to struggle with two other girls that swoop her her away when I try to talk to her.

[DeltaDanner]

This sounds like a misunderstanding more than anything. And so what if she does? Obviously she should hang out with you still, and you should continue being friends. But she can't just ignore her boyfriend for you or put you before her relationship. That wouldn't be healthy for their relationship at all.
She should stay with her friends, hang out with them, don't ignore them, but that shouldn't mean she has to give up her boyfriend or ignore him.

[Hephaestus]

She may be putting him 1st because their relationship has a potential to grow exponentially.
If it bothers you, tell her and go from there.

But in my opinion she isn't wrong for putting him 1st now and then.

[Pumabearr]

She may be in the honeymoon stage still or she's trying to figure out if this is a long term relationship or if it's not going to be.
If it bothers you, just let her know you miss her and want to spend some quality alone time with her and trust me more than likely she'll make time for you.

[YellowEdeDemon]

Try to solve the problem whit her, losing a best friend is not the best thing in the world.
Talk to her about what you think is happening, friends are there to support you so i think she will understand your point of view. :)