Hey guys. My ex- girlfriend broke up with me about 8 weeks ago (doesn't feel the spark, doesn't love me anymore etc).
It was a surprised break up but I took it on the chin, kept quiet and focused on myself. I read some similar stories here (spent time in the gym, rebuilding my lost social life, making new friends etc). I still love her but realised how much of a push over I was with her (did it out of love) and had to 'man up'.
I chased my ex for 2 weeks after the break up but realised that I was being a fool so stopped that.
I now got my confidence back, looking fitter than ever and enjoying my life again. Didn't speak to her for about 6 weeks.
Suddenly my ex started making little personal attacks to put me down on social media from leaving me alone (Twitter, Facebook - I blocked her now) as she can see on the social media me hanging out with new girls, with six pack (she used to pick on my weight) and feeling happy.
I told her to leave me alone and blocked her from my FB and Twitter. She is trying to put on a friendly front but come out with little attacks to put me down here and then. She broke up with me, got a new man whome she said she is happy with but not leaving me alone.
I met this girl other day and the last thing I want is to have my ex-spoiling things as we have the same social scene. I treated my ex well, loved her, did what I could, she dumped me, I got on with my life, just met a nice girl but ex is still trying to be mean to me.
My friends think she is trying to seek attention & trying to play me. It is not working but she is getting worse - trying to turn up to common parties with her new man looking loved up etc. I acted calm and tried to be nice (inside it hurted me abit). Some reckon she still must have feelings for me and trying to get me to chase her (not going to happen).
Have you come across this before?
It was a surprised break up but I took it on the chin, kept quiet and focused on myself. I read some similar stories here (spent time in the gym, rebuilding my lost social life, making new friends etc). I still love her but realised how much of a push over I was with her (did it out of love) and had to 'man up'.
I chased my ex for 2 weeks after the break up but realised that I was being a fool so stopped that.
I now got my confidence back, looking fitter than ever and enjoying my life again. Didn't speak to her for about 6 weeks.
Suddenly my ex started making little personal attacks to put me down on social media from leaving me alone (Twitter, Facebook - I blocked her now) as she can see on the social media me hanging out with new girls, with six pack (she used to pick on my weight) and feeling happy.
I told her to leave me alone and blocked her from my FB and Twitter. She is trying to put on a friendly front but come out with little attacks to put me down here and then. She broke up with me, got a new man whome she said she is happy with but not leaving me alone.
I met this girl other day and the last thing I want is to have my ex-spoiling things as we have the same social scene. I treated my ex well, loved her, did what I could, she dumped me, I got on with my life, just met a nice girl but ex is still trying to be mean to me.
My friends think she is trying to seek attention & trying to play me. It is not working but she is getting worse - trying to turn up to common parties with her new man looking loved up etc. I acted calm and tried to be nice (inside it hurted me abit). Some reckon she still must have feelings for me and trying to get me to chase her (not going to happen).
Have you come across this before?
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