They dated for two years, and broke up about a year ago because she moved away for grad school. He says that they never fought in those two years, and didn’t have many issues; when I asked what her biggest flaw was, he said “chewing loudly.” He can sometimes be insensitive about comments he makes about other women, and he says she never really had a problem with it; the sex was great, they had so much in common… You get the idea. He says he’s over her, but it also seems like she was this perfect girlfriend. He’s already kind of compared me a little bit to her (“well you and I run into an issue like once a week”… largely him making some comment about another girl being hot, and me telling him calmly that that upsets me.. “and she never got upset about this stuff.”)
So am I always going to have to compete against the perfect ex-girlfriend? Should I even bother dating him, or tell him to go find someone like her to date?
PS: Me and her are also don’t seem very similar; he’s described her as shy and quiet, and I’m kind of outgoing and talkative.
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