he's 6 feet tall and has shoulders like a football player. aside from the weight, he's good looking.
if a guy of this build approached you, would you already have it decided in your mind that he's not your type, or would you not mind so much?
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Nope. I went out with an obese guy for 2 years. I've given fat guys a chance. I never again want to feel like I'm being crushed under the weight of a mans belly. Now a year out of the relationship and it turns my stomach. Worse than the physical was just how spoilt he had been throughout his life. He didn't get fat by accident. If you won't put the effort into maintaining you body then don't expect a girl who puts the effort in to go near you.
Sorry just my opinion which has been biased by my own experience. If it's any consolation I always said I wouldn't go near a fat guy because I come from a skinny family and it was just so alien to me but he changed my mind.1