Polls: Dating

He noticed me right away and I could tell he was trying to get my attention but never really spoke because I'm always just passing by quickly. (I will admit, I am not all that approachable.) Today, he looked me dead in my eyes no ambiguity and it's obvious he wants me. Taking his "approach" into account, should say hi and give him a green light or just ignore him? People (men and women) are all so ruthless and disloyal these days. I don't even want to bother.

Disclaimer: I DO NOT. I’m asking this bc i find it peculiar many people have this mind set & are bothered by someone providing pertinent data as if it is a decision. With so many playing games. I think honesty is refreshing.

Being upfront about personal relationship goals on the second date seems very early for some, for others it is just being efficient and not wasting time. Yea you can develop feelings for the person and perhaps give up stuff important to you, but I think many people don’t want to fall into that trap - which I understand.

I can see both approaches having merit. Being open free and seeing how things go not worrying about the future until you know how you feel is one technique tho probably best suited to 15-26 year olds or people for whom relationships are not a priority. Life keeps moving and while you’re seeing “how things go” with someone you may end up not wanting to be with bc turns out tho you fell in love, you want very different things— other people are meeting people they settle with who might’ve been a really good fit for you 🤷🏻‍♀️

Being upfront knowing what you want sure saves a lot of hassle - tho not everyone reacts well. & perhaps what you want changes. I think with major things like sex or marriage it’s crucial to be on the same page. I understand bringing it up as early as possible it is very unlikely to change. You may agree to compromise, but it may be to the point either or both are miserable.

If a guy doesn’t tell me what’s important to him up front, that’s fine as long as it doesn’t Interfere with my ability to make an informed decision. Likewise, If he tells me straight up on say date two or three, that’s fine too —unless his actions betray his words. Then he’s not being upfront he’s being shifty.

But to be upfront, I would not see that as needy or desperate & I CERTAINLY not as indicative of having made up his mind about ME. 😂

We’ve been together for six months and he hooked up with another girl. He wasn’t trying to hide it either. He told others he hooked up with her. Since he didn’t break up with me and given that homecoming’s around the corner. Do you think he wants to ask her?

so my friends are saying it is and I'm anxious as hell. He told me the night before he was stressed out from work. We have been trying to make time for eachother but it's been hard the last 2 weeks. He keeps apologising. So I got donuts delivered to his work yesterday with a hand written note saying 'you got this :) xx'. My friends are saying it's too much.

I've been talking to him for a month. is it weird? Too much?

Any input is helpful, thanks

Girl 1 -

body - 5’5”, slim, very small boobs, pear shaped body. She has a smaller butt but wider hips. She has long straight light pink hair and very pale skin. Light blue eyes. Delicate features. Wears very natural makeup. She likes to dress hot and wild like Harley Quinn or like avril Lavigne.

personality - she is very fun and wild and impulsive. She is very flirty and doesn’t take life too seriously. She is blunt and kinda bitchy but has a soft side for people she cares about. She loves to party and get drunk but also likes to bake and read sometimes. She’s does not want a relationship just to have some fun ;)

Girl 2 -

body- 5’8”, slim slight hourglass shape. B cup boobs. She has long straight dark brown hair and very green eyes and bigger lips. She is lightly tanned. Wears very natural makeup. Is told she resembles young megan fox. She likes to dress is casual clothing that is more flattering and put together. Jeans, tight tops, and leggings.

personality - she is a bit more introverted. She is shy at first but is very fun when you are close with her. She is more sensitive and emotional. She likes to party but only occasionally. She doesn’t have that many friends. She likes riding horses. She is very loyal and likes a real relationship.

Choose only 1🙂

Please don't whine "I'm a good guy, I'm single" because this is not a rant post. Thanks!

This is about me & guy I asked out a few weeks ago —and after some mix up we’re on track to hang out Thursday evening or Friday morning 😂

… So he knows I hang out in a tree at the library where he works in between my shifts, bc he ran into me there a while back. He has since made it a habit of stopping to say hi & sit with me on his way into the library to work.

I don’t think there is anything wrong & obviously he’s free to sit in any tree and I certainly never ashes not to. I think it is very sweet and courteous. I think if I was normal, I’d probably enjoy it. But well I go there between shifts to decompress and be alone and with him coming by it feels like I need to be “on” which is stressful.

And yeah I know when you get along it shouldn’t be stressful but sone prophetic get stressed & we only really just decided to maybe date so the dynamic has changed tho I’ve known him a few years.

first person I ever felt really strongly about I got so nervous I’d end up avoiding him and he thought I hated him and it was a big mess. And I don't know if I’m always going to feel weird around people I like or what. I was five till I ashes him out in text between the two of us he was the mire shy. I think tuat has flipped now & I’m very disoriented. he seems really confident and I’m all spazzing out inwardly. Outwardly luckily I’m composed. It’s my thing lol

Not sure exactly what I’m asking. Im just a bit concerned of my unfortunate tendency and I don’t know if this is “ new situation nerves” or I’m just beginning my truest journey of escapism even tho I like the person very much.

So I don't know, I guess any thoughts on the subject are welcome, thank you.

LOL I love how with these images, when the girl is nervous the girl is brunette. When the guy is nervous, the woman is blind 😂 🤦🏻‍♀️