Tall, buff & sexy transit employee, who works at my stop, looked me dead in my eyes today after a month of checking me out. Should I say hi?

[DermalPunch]

He noticed me right away and I could tell he was trying to get my attention but never really spoke because I'm always just passing by quickly. (I will admit, I am not all that approachable.) Today, he looked me dead in my eyes no ambiguity and it's obvious he wants me. Taking his "approach" into account, should say hi and give him a green light or just ignore him? People (men and women) are all so ruthless and disloyal these days. I don't even want to bother.

Yes, he's into you.

No, he's a perv.

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I've decided I won't be saying a word.

[NathanDavis]

I am confusion!!

the first part of your post made me think you're considering the option of engaging with him because you're interested...

but the last part of your post makes me think that at the moment you're quite fed up with people and situationships and don't want to bother at all... lol

which one is more accurate?

[DermalPunch]

LOL. It's both. But really the question is considering how he showed his interest... is he more likely to be a typical f***boy perv or maybe he could actually be a good decent guy. Decent humans are so rare. And I don't do situationships.

[NathanDavis]

well... this is very difficult to assume from just some details

however he did wait for a month... he did check you out for a month, so to me that is an indication of him NOT being a "perv"

now, I do know you are very attractive and you know it too, so... if he "waited" that has to be cause he feels is the right thing to do

people who are more careless about other people would have done it right away, with you...

[DermalPunch]

Ok, Nathan. I hear you. I'll wave. But I'm not making the first obvious move.

[NathanDavis]

maybe you don't have to... maybe you just need to respond a bit, if he makes a move, just respond a bit, or acknowledge it

maybe that's all he needs, and then he will be more comfortable to approach, and so will you... to respond, lol

you can take your time as well, no need to rush into things either

[20yearsolder]

Oh hell, you're about a month away from being married to him

[DermalPunch]

Hahaha. You're answers always make me smile even if they are a bit on the blue side sometimes. Thanks!

[DermalPunch]

Your

[20yearsolder]

You're welcome, now the answer the question, if you're interested in the dude then why not say hi. You'll always regret if you don't

[DermalPunch]

Actually, I probably won't.

[20yearsolder]

What's the worst thing that can happen, all you're saying is hi

[DermalPunch]

Here if you don't give chase, you will be disrespected.

[20yearsolder]

Thanks for the MHO. PLEASE go for it. You'll regret it if you don't

[DermalPunch]

Why are you so sure?

[20yearsolder]

Because it's someone that you're really interested in. Why not take the chance? What's it going to hurt to say hi? It mainly do a conversation. You may find out you have things in common. If it doesn't go any farther than that then all you've done is say hi.

[DermalPunch]

I see. I read wasn't paying him much attention until he that.

[DermalPunch]

Really

[bademoxy]

these days, a self respecting dude trying to hang onto to some dignity cannot win , which is why at least 85% of the straight white men who became adults after the '90s never approach women for a date.
The remainder of average status single guys who still DO approach attractive women are mostly callous sociopaths who've developed an immunity to the ~90% rejection rates. These user Aholes call themselves "POAs". Young women exploited by these animals end up as feminist activists , blaming all men.

[DermalPunch]

Do you care to vote or address the question in any way?

[Alex8736]

Last time I checked there was no law stating it's a felony to say hello so go for it

[Jennz6]

Yes he is checking you out

[DermalPunch]

But is this perv approach or "normal" person hoping to find love approach?

[Jennz6]

Don’t know, be careful

[Anonymous]

Nah, leave him alone. It's clearly not mutual.

[Stevefiveo]

Go for it.

[DermalPunch]

He can go for me.

[Stevefiveo]

He is probably worried that he will be fired for sexual harassment if he read your signals wrong.

[Stevefiveo]

Although I don't what it's like in Morocco.

[DermalPunch]

No. He won't have that issue. The police are for decoration mostly. Here if you want to be married, you cannot make any approach or express your interest before the man. If you do, they will try to get you into bed. No smiles. As if you hate them. That's just how it us here. They need to feel as if they conquered you and you have to keep it up always manipulating them in this way. It's annoying and draining but that's just how it works here. If you don't they will use you like a toy. It's sad.

[Stevefiveo]

Yeah, I had to check where you are from. It would be totally different in the United States. Some woman would feel creeped out and make a big deal about it until he got fired. It must be nice to talk to a woman you like without worrying if she is going to get creeped out.

[DermalPunch]

It's a mix here.

[Stevefiveo]

Sounds nice.

[aminadavide]

Not atall