My boyfriend hooked up with another girl and bragged about it to others. Since he didn’t break up with me who does he want to be with?

[Anonymous]

We’ve been together for six months and he hooked up with another girl. He wasn’t trying to hide it either. He told others he hooked up with her. Since he didn’t break up with me and given that homecoming’s around the corner. Do you think he wants to ask her?

He wants to be with her and probably wants to go with her to homecoming

He wants to be with her but would probably ask me to homecoming

He wants to stay with me and ask me to homecoming

[Sandeeppingping]

That's what you're thinking about bruv? He cheated on you, dude's a dick, doesn't matter what he wants, self respect tell him to fuck off don't be someone people walk over and end up getting hurt in the end I don't know you and wouldn't want to see that, so leave with your pride intact at the very least

[Asker]

I know he loves me but I’m just questioning who he wants more because this happned

[JamesDiaz11]

It sounds like he doesn't have any respect for you. A guy will cheat, but he'll hide this from a girl he cares about/ respects. Literally using different names, going out of state, etc. and denying it to his dying breath.

The fact that he doesn't care if you find out just shows he's not that attached to you, but if he's still technically dating you he probably was planning on taking you to homecoming.

If you go your future mistreatment will be your choice.

[yucychan]

Is he like a jock or part of the popular crowd, someone whom you've been dying to be with?

He hooked up with another girl. Why are you still with this asshole? Are you that desperate? The fact that he is bragging to others about the other girl only means that he never saw you as his girlfriend in the first place.

What's wrong with you?

[SeriouslyFunny00]

Respect yourself and block this boy from your life. He clearly cheated on you and you're still holding on. You need to know that you deserve someone who will respect you and not treat you as an option. You've got to set standards for yourself, sweetheart.

[Honest-Matt]

He doesn't respect you and it's not your job to teach him how to respect women, save yourself the mental strain and dump him. There are way better men out there that are mature, considerate and respectful.

[Asker]

I will dump him if he wants to be with her but I’m not sure he actually wants her

[Honest-Matt]

He wants her at the moment, as he did with you for the moment, he clearly doesn't have any intention to be around very long, he's using you and you deserve better.

[20yearsolder]

Kind of a stupid question if you ask me, why the fuck would you want to be with a guy that cheated on you? The only option He should have is the other girl. Because you don't want anything to do with him anymore

[Insaniacthemaniac]

Why are you worrying about this? You need to break up with the guy and find someone who is loyal to you.

[Asker]

Well I want to know who he wants to be with. If he wants her I might consider breaking up with him.

[Insaniacthemaniac]

Why would you even consider staying with someone who has openly cheated on you? You need to have more integrity.

[Guy13]

He want to balance you both at same time. He probably go to homecoming with the person already has plans with 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Asker]

So he wants to go with her?

[Guy13]

Did he make plans with you already?

[Asker]

Not yet but I think it’s coming

[Guy13]

Oh…I thought you and him had plans then he did that. 🤷🏻‍♂️ No idea. Let us know how it plays out ⁉️ Nothing to do but wait.

[Paul09]

Omfg. F this guy. He will do that to the other girl too. He probably thinks he's tough. He's just a a-hole. Just continue on with your life and find a respectful man. Why would you even think of wanting him back?

[Asker]

We’re actually still together

[Paul09]

Why? You are worth way more than being with a man that uses you. Well you like to get hurt. Then don't ask questions. 9nceva cheater, always a cheater . Especially him. Then a lot of women like you complain that men are bad. No you just go for horrible men. I hate evil men winning at life. Taking advantage of people.

[DermalPunch]

I voted D. I don't care because I dumped him.

Don't you have any sense of self worth or respect? For some limp dick acne factory loser? Girl get it together.

[RavVid]

Well sounds like it was a trophy fuck if he is openly bragging about it. Of course you have to decide if that is good enough for you.

[Asker]

What’s a trophy fuck?

[Honest-Matt]

A trophy fuck is a guy treating having sex with someone as an achievement to brag about. If they do this while in a relationship it's a really disrespectful, immature, shitty to do.

[RavVid]

@Honest-Matt Certainly is. Hence Asker should rethink her situation.

[USLegionary]

The real question is where is your pride&self respect?

[watercolor_lions]

Why are you asking this question? You deserve so much better.

Ask someone else to homecoming and let him miss you. He doesn't deserve you.

[DermalPunch]

It's so sad.

[hafinjun]

Sounds to me like it's a one way thing, how would he react if you did same, and bragged to your girl friends about how big he was. If your comfortable with an open relationship then no harm no foul, if not make the choice for him and move on.

[Tomsta]

He is wanting to have his cake and eat it to. Kick him to the curb, otherwise you're basically stating that he can continue to cheat

Unless ofc it's an open relationship

[Asker]

No I’m not ok with that but I need to know who he wants to be with first before just dumping him

[supercutebutt]

He is gonna ask you both to go and then get a hotel room after so you kids can enjoy a sloppy threesome!

[Anonymous]

He probably wants the both of you - make the decision for him and just leave him tbh, he’s only gonna cheat again anyway most probably after/during homecoming…

[nickaboy]

He wants to fuck as many Girls possible a guy like that doesn't want a stable relationship. You probably fell for his i don't give a fuck attitude and now you get what you asked for

[TacosRAwesome]

He obviously wants his cake and eating it. And wouldn't dump you because why would he? The question is what do you want?

[exitseven]

sorry this happened to you. It is time to kick him to the curb.

[TroyDT]

Unless you are content with being cheated on again and again, dump him.

[Asker]

If he’s more interested in being with her then I will

[DermalPunch]

WRONG ANSWER! If a guy cheats on you and stays with you it's because he doesn't view you as valuable but useful. Girl, where are your parents?

[tafarrier]

@DermalPunch dump his ass, bang his best friend

[nickaboy]

@DermalPunch I agree. She is the living example of why nice guys finish last and i mean the actual nice guys not the ones that Just claim to be.

She fell for a badboy , that cheats on her and she Just accepts it if she keeps this up she will be asking in her 40's where all the good men went. If this dude was an actual nice guy he would have kept dumped the first milisecond she doubted anything bout him.

[DermalPunch]

@nickaboy all that.

[AsaKyo]

God, just leave him
Tf is wrong with you?

[nawtee_me]

he doesn't want you or he would not have hooked up with someone else...

[Asker]

He hasn’t broken up with me so I don’t think he doesn’t want me

[Honest-Matt]

I'm sure he does want you, but if he's willing to sleep with other people, he has zero interest in anything but taking what he wants from you and leaving after he's bored.

[Girltaytay]

Break up with him, he's not worth it if he cheats on you and brags about it. You should ask someone else to homecoming.

[Asker]

I don’t talk to any other guys so I wouldn’t be able to ask someone else to homecoming

[DermalPunch]

Go y yourself, look amazing and let all the dudes who wpuld loke to date ypu swarm around you. Play see see not touch the whole night and ignore your ex boyfriend. But I don't think you're there yet.