I ghosted a good girl after I hooked up with her 3 times, should I reach out?

[biggiewasntsmall]

I’ve met this girl and immediately felt a spark, we kissed the first day we met. She was interesting and funny and beautiful/attractive. She was chill and laid back, but was also empathetic about things and I felt like she really cared about me. We hooked up three times, I knew it was just that but I believe she wanted more as she told me she only had sex with long term boyfriends so far. In the meantime I have noticed she was still hurting from her past relationship, which she mentioned before we slept together the first time, she was very hurt but seemed to have moved on. However I caught her a few times starting to get teary and thought it might be from that. I met another girl at the same time who is attractive and interesting and thought she would have less baggage than the initial one. So I ghosted the first girl and left her for this other girl. I assume it hurt her because she’s already been through bad situation but I didn’t want to hurt myself. I never spoke to her to find out if I did cause her more pain. After a few months I broke up with the other girl because she tried too hard and was a people pleaser and seemed fake. I now miss the first girl and want to get back but don’t know how. Should I reach out anyways?

[amirehhh]

sorry but you sound like you don’t deserve this girl. you could tell she was vulnerable yet you chose to hurt her by making the most pusssy move ever cause it was more convenient for you to get out of that situation in that way. real man doesn’t do that. i honestly hope she healed and moved on and found someone much better. i also hope you start working on yourself.

[biggiewasntsmall]

tbh i just didn’t want to argue with her because i know how girls are like after you have sex with them and i felt it would make her feel bad either way

[amirehhh]

what are you even on about? i really hope you know deep down that you did her wrong and you don’t deserve her.

[Blackcosmo]

She was already really vulnerable from her past relationship and then you went ahead and ghosted her. You should apologize to her for hurting her but I don't think you should get into a relationship with her.

[DarkWinterNights]

If you ghosted her that ship has sailed. Shouldn’t have burned that bridge but she won’t trust you anymore.

[Anonymous]

Seems like u don’t know what the hell u want, which is really unattractive.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

No, do her a favor and keep away from her.

[In_Trance]

Why bother?