I’ve met this girl and immediately felt a spark, we kissed the first day we met. She was interesting and funny and beautiful/attractive. She was chill and laid back, but was also empathetic about things and I felt like she really cared about me. We hooked up three times, I knew it was just that but I believe she wanted more as she told me she only had sex with long term boyfriends so far. In the meantime I have noticed she was still hurting from her past relationship, which she mentioned before we slept together the first time, she was very hurt but seemed to have moved on. However I caught her a few times starting to get teary and thought it might be from that. I met another girl at the same time who is attractive and interesting and thought she would have less baggage than the initial one. So I ghosted the first girl and left her for this other girl. I assume it hurt her because she’s already been through bad situation but I didn’t want to hurt myself. I never spoke to her to find out if I did cause her more pain. After a few months I broke up with the other girl because she tried too hard and was a people pleaser and seemed fake. I now miss the first girl and want to get back but don’t know how. Should I reach out anyways?
I ghosted a good girl after I hooked up with her 3 times, should I reach out?
