I ghosted a girl I liked?

[Anonymous]

Then never seen her again for months

I really liked her

Would texting to apologise help

I think about her a lot?

Updates

3 mo

Or just move forward on

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude that really sucks. Ghosting is never cool. If you really liked this girl, you gotta own up to your mistake and apologize. Even if she doesn't want to hear from you, at least you can say you tried to make it right. Here's what I would do:

Shoot her a text saying you've been feeling bad about disappearing on her. Admit you handled it wrong and it wasn't cool to leave her hanging like that. Say you've been thinking about her a lot and hope she'll consider meeting up so you can apologize in person.

Make it clear this isn't you asking for another chance, just to own up to your actions. Ball's in her court to decide if she even wants to hear you out. Respect her decision no matter what.

Going apologies in person shows you really care. And be prepared she may be pissed - own that too. But at least you'll know you tried to do the stand-up thing instead of leaving things unresolved. Could help bring you both some closure.

Just be honest, own your L, and give her space. You never know man, she may give you another shot if she sees you're genuine. But the main thing is recognizing you messed up - that's the first step to learning from it, yeah? You got this bro.

[Cynicaldreamer]

Speaking as someone that's been ghosted a lot by guys like you... I probably wouldn't even reply, much less want to hear your excuses (no offense, but you did ask).

When a guy ghosts me, I assume he lost interest, or found another girl that he wanted over me. And you went MONTHS without talking to her? Yeah... sounds suspicious, unintentional or not.

You can try and apologize- explain the situation and tell her you didn't mean to hurt her. But like I said, after being ghosted, most people aren't going to give you another chance because they're afraid you'll disappear again once they start to like you!

[TenderFantasy]

Why did you ghost her? Where was your balls? !

It depends. Are you trying to hook up for sex or because you ACTUALLY like her for more than that? It really depends. If what you want, matches what she is looking for, then I don't see why not. Next time, learn? Respect is key.

[Anonymous]

Why did you ghost her? I was just ghosted so I’m super sensitive to this right now. I’m sure she would appreciate hearing from you, but be prepared for her to ignore you or be a little angry. Or maybe she will be like “oh hi!” 😊

[Asker]

Tbh I taught I would bump into her again soon but it never happened then not seen in months

[Opinion Owner]

Did you reach out to her?

[Asker]

No 😔

[Opinion Owner]

Why?

[Asker]

Just a lot of time passed like 6 months

[Opinion Owner]

I meant now…did you reach out and apologize?

[Asker]

Not yet I'm unsure it'll work 😕

[Opinion Owner]

Go for it? What do you have to lose?

[Asker]

She might be with someone else 🤢

[Opinion Owner]

You can still text and apologize to her. If you think that much about her it might make you feel better at least.

[Asker]

Try move on.

[Opinion Owner]

👍👍

[Elena_Stewart]

Text her and see if she will respond. But I don't know if she will trust u again

[exitseven]

Yes, apologize. Either she forgives you or not.