Polls: Dating

Guys, Is this Considered Cheating if a Guy accepts a Lap Dance at his Bachelor party? ↗

So this question is inspired by the question above. Many guys think it is not cheating when guys get lap dance at a bachelor party. I am middleeastern and i always was shocked that bachelorette/bachelor parties exist. I just want to ask this question to see the opinions of the same guys that are ok with lap dance at bachelor parties. I just want to see if they are hypocritical or not.

Please vote!!

(Note: I am also sorry if i offend anyone with this question)

**I found this Interesting when I answered Someone on Something Similar they had Asked. xx

I always hate when this issue comes up. It makes me very uncomfortable to have that conversation and I really dread that part of a date.

In dating situations do you prefer to be the one going after someone or them trying to get with you?

This is a question that always seems to pop up.
Would you date someone solely on their appearance? The appearance that everything you like, but their personality is everything you dislike. Would you?

27F Earlier last week on Wed, we went out to dinner and talked for 3 hrs. We’ve been in contact via Instagram messages. Friday we talked on the phone to buy tickets & see the Spider-Man movie Saturday. Fri evening I asked if he could stop sending those IG video reels politely, it was a bit overboard. Saturday before the movie, he said good morning and I replied with a wave emoji. He normally would continue the conversation via Instagram but doesn’t message again until he said he was waiting at the theater. I was not as bubbly as I was on Wednesday, I was very quiet (not against him). He was annoying me during the movie, he’s the type to laugh and make noises when something exciting came on. He nudged me during the movie and asked if I was ok because I was quiet and I said yes. At the end I told him thanks, he said you’re welcome and he said drive safe. On Wednesday, we ended with a hug. When I spoke with him Friday, he told me that he talked about me with his friends but Saturday was so off, he sent a message after movie saying that he wasn’t really feeling it from me and it’s not going to work for him. I left his message on seen. He unmatched with me on the dating app and I stopped following him on IG. Bit soon to say but he’s still following me on IG and viewed my stories after saying he didn’t want to talk to me anymore. Hasn’t gotten around to unfollowing me I guess. My social anxiety gets the better of me with these situations I’m cursed. I just don’t get why I can’t find a guy that wants to fight for me

TL; DR: was he just not interested or am I to blame because of my lack of enthusiasm?

She is not a tomboy but she is not ultra "feminine". She just wear jeans, t-shirts, blouses, sweatshirts, (rarely) long dresses etc. Just basic. Is it unfeminine when you dont wear make up, or dress up? I tried wearing make up but i suck at it. I dont know how some women know how to apply make up so perfect.

haven't dated yet but i guess i'd like a mix of both

Non-binary means doesn’t identify as male or female. This person was assigned female at birth, but doesn’t care about what pronouns you call her. Sometimes he dresses up as a guy and sometimes she goes out all girly. This is described as two spirit.

I see many guys who dislike coloured hair and judge women for having coloured hair (but we get called shallow for prefering tall men). Is it really a huge deal breaker even if she has a great personality? I dont understand the deal with it. It can look so beautiful. Here are the pics as an example. The girls in the pics look like a fairytale with coloured hair.