I come out and tell the girl, I will pay for the date, I even give her money for gas
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Not particularly, unless I know that he is struggling financially or doesn’t have a job… Usually I will offer to split it. He or I pay it full, and see the total, and divide it by 2, and we give each other our portion. If he offers to pay it full, I will still offer to pay a tip or split it.
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I never have that discussion because I always assume that I will pay for everything.
Ironically looking back at every time I went out with a girl - She always made it clear that she'd pay for herself - Which I really appreciated - I've also found it weird that those that developed into an actual relationship ended up having me pay for her and her paying for me more than a few times.. But never before we were actually close
I voted yes. I have never had that conversation other than my husband and I deciding which of us has cash on hand of it's a breakfast date or coffee.
I would find it awkward to insist on paying for dinner if I were dating. I was taught that would be insulting. I understand why everyone likes to split things now, but I guess I'm still living in the old days.If I invite a woman out, I expect to pay for the date. If she's also a professional and insists on splitting it, then I will let her. If the date went well and it's clear there will be another I will suggest that she can get the next one. If I'm earning considerably more than she does, then I am happy to pay almost all the time.
Not really. I feel like who ever asked for the date, should pay. And I am usually the one who asks. But if so, I would still offer to pay if she asked, knowing she would not accept, but that she sees that I am still politely offering.
When I used to go out on dates, the guys who asked me out would also say "It's on me" soon after asking me out. I did the same when I asked guys out. It's always better to bring it up early on to eliminate at least one uncertainty out of the way. Most of the time, though, my dates would cover the outing even though I offered to.
I voted No - I don’t talk about it, I just pay for the date; and if the woman insists on paying, I just tell her that she can pay on the next date.
And then on the next date if she again insists on paying, l, I just tell her that she can pay on the next date..I just man up and pay.
No biggie.
If you aren't prepared to pay the bill when you go out on a date then you shouldn't have gone out in the first place.
If she really want to pay, or go dutch then that is fine.
I'm not going to make a big deal out of it, but I will always offer to pay.My general rule is if we're just starting, if I am the one who asked her out, I pay. If she offers to pay her share, I would accept, otherwise I don't expect her.
If she's the one who asked me out, I would always offer to pay my share.
If we're already together, we discuss this beforehand. I do offer to pay on special occasions like her birthday or anniversary or if there's something to celebrate like her promotion or new job or start of business.No I just assume every date i have I'm gonna pay for myself. If he offers to pay I let him. If he asks me to pay, then I might be a little
15 years ago, that wouldn't be an issue at all. But today, with all the B. S. ""how dare you to pay for me, I can pay for my own meal"" and ""I'm a strong woman who can take care of myself"" garbage, I definitely do.
I just assume that I'll pay for it, so I really don't think that much about it. Funny that a lot of the time when the time comes to pay, the woman will pick up the tab. In that case I tell her I'll leave the tip.
I have never been on a date but if I were to go on a date I will offer to split the bill. If the guy wants to pay then I will let him. Otherwise I am ok with paying my own share
Nope not exactly hard. Just ask right away before the date even happens, then there answer it's self could give away yep this date ain't for me. So I've never had any issue with this.
I always made it clear up front I was paying for myself. It made me feel awkward when someone wanted to pay. Just the way I was raised.
I don't go on dates unless they pay. I've never had to have that conversation
Use to of paying. So far only one date wanted to pay and it was awkward.
I always pay unless if it’s my birthday or something where my date has told me she wants to treat.
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Let the guy take care of it at least for the first three dates. Then you can have it I’ll pay for you next time you pay for me
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