Polls: Dating

A co-worker texted me to say "have a nice trip" --- since I was going on vacation. The conversation carried on for about 6 hours (on and off of course) well into his work shift but he continued to talk to me

About 50 texts were exchanged. I like this guy so I made sure to continue the convo.

Do you think the same was true for him? He kept texting because he likes me?

The conversation was mostly joking with one another, playful banter.

At one point, I said "I will tell you but only because I like you" and he texted back in like 3 seconds "sure you do" I responded with "Do I lie?" and he said "Do you lie?"

Is he just trying to figure me out and see if I like him for real?

Do most guys like or dislike giving women foot massages?

I was just wondering, cause personally I don't really care for feet; they're good for walking, but other than that I don't like feet that much. I do like having my feet massaged however, but I don't expect a guy to do it since I wouldn't wanna do his. lol

But it seems like quite a few guys actually like feet so I was just wondering.

I've met a few guys recently whom I've really hit it off with, but they are leaving soon for 3-6 month travel expeditions in Europe or Asia.

How would you date someone like this? Would you? Why or why not?

This is a bit of an awkward situation, but my guy friend claims his first kiss was from spin the bottle. Does that even count? I know he's kissed other girls since then. I was the first date, girl he liked kiss. Idk, it was an awkward conversation, but I wasn't just about to jump on it and say umm that doesn't count... because that would lead to me and I think there were some unresolved feelings with that relationship with me. Anyways, what do you think? Do those count?

Guys if you got a blank text from a girl, and you responded with something like, "Why did you send me a blank text?"

And the response was something like..."Hmm, I don't think I did, sounds like a lame excuse to text me ;)"

Would you think it was cute or a little needy/ lame?

Would you catch on to the fact that it was a ploy for attention? Or would this be a case when guys are conveniently oblivious?

Recent web article I saw said that the feelings developed between people engaged in online/cyber relationships are typically more intense and heart-felt than real life ones of the same length of time because, due to restrictions in physical and verbal cues, you both end up sharing more of yourself in a shorter period of time and this builds a stronger emotional bond.

Do you agree that's true? That love can really develop between people who have never met before? Or is it just infatuation and/or idealism where the feelings go away much faster than they would after a RL breakup?

Cause he told me to text him first and I no said you text me so who knows.

But should I text him first or should I wait until he texts me?

Is he interested or does he just want to see if I'll text him first?

When I was younger I did, only when I was alone, and before I had my first kiss. I heard of doing it from some movie I saw years ago...Now that I look back on it, I feel kind of silly for doing that. Do you or have you ever done this? How did you hear of it? Do you think it improved your technique? Do you think it's a good idea? Why did you do it if you did, or why not if you didn't? Share your thoughts please...just curious on what everyone else says

Is it possible to develop feelings with someone you haven't met in person yet?

Eg, you deal with someone on the phone a lot in work and email also etc, you never met them in person but you get on very well and you both get very close and start to trust each other etc. Can also include online dating I guess.

But do people think it's possible to develop genuine feelings in these senarios? Having seen only a photo?

It's been coming more apparent to me that less and less guys take women out on real dates. By real date I mean picking her up, going to her door, taking her flowers or something (that part is if you really like the girl), going to dinner, getting somewhat dressed up to impress the other person, where the guy opens her car door, etc. Something that at the end of the night there's the potential of a second date, of actually going out again; not just "hanging out."

I personally have never been on a real date like this, and I've found that this is becoming a common occurrence.

So what's up guys? Do you take girls out on, "real dates," or just opt for the, "hanging out?

Ladies, what's your experience with this? What are your thoughts?

So many first dates begin at Starbucks.

In order to impress your date, you might want to know which is the sexiest drink you can order.

VOTE!

In the comments: Whipped cream or no whip?

Guys would you rather date white ,mixed or black girls?

girls you can answer too.

i read in cosmo that the majority of guys (more than 50%) would end a relationship because of a bad kiss.

Is this true for you guys?

girls answer too. would you break up with a guy because he's not a good kisser?