Questions: Dating

When I was about 14, my brother's girlfriend styled my hair. She literally said, ".. guys will be disappointed once they see your face!" In the moment, I didn't understand what she meant, so I asked my brother and he laughed. Then, commented "It's because you look like dad!"

A few weeks ago, I went on a cruise by myself. I heard a group of people talking about me as I walked by. "... why is she by herself? Because she's a man" In the moment, I laughed it off. Now, I'm ruminating about it.

Guys always stare at me, but they never approach me in public. I have green eyes, and few arm tattoos, so I always wonder whether they are looking at my eyes, tatts or trying to determine if I'm trans!

As a single woman with no kids. Dating a man with kids IS a turn off. Because all your money and attention is gonna go to your children. All your love and praise will go to your children. 😒

I would prefer to start from ZERO with someone also at ZERO. A single Father is also likely to be on CHILD SUPPORT. This means if you want him to spoil you, he can’t.

Ladies, which do you prefer to date etc.

Consider that blue collars work a hazardous job (electrical, construction, mechanical, heights, mechanical) they come home dirty/sweaty/dirty nails, but makes 6 digits and provides. He is one of the workers that builds America (paving roads, building) He just has a high school diploma but makes the same money with someone with a bachelor’s degree. His job requires physical and mental abilities like learning how to rewire a car. Alcohol, vape, marijuana, dip, and cigarettes help him destress from work. He loves his burgers, steaks and sweet tea.

Consider that white collars have a office job with AC sitting on a computer and comes home from 9-5 making 6 digits. He earned a bachelors degree and he might be saving peoples lives (doctor, surgeon). His work is rewarding and given the job, it can be done remotely. It is safe, but it is a sedentary life style.

Would you take them seriously?