Due to him saying this upsetting words. My feelings towards him has changed. Apart of me says I am overreacting. Before this things were going well. He treated me so well and kindly. His words matched with his actions. Then I went on a 2 week holiday with my family. Are relationship started to go down after this. I booked the holiday before I meet him. After I came back things changed. I did ask him if wanted to go but he said he feels that he would be invading.
I have stopped speaking to a lot of people because of him because they do not approve extended family and friends.
He asked me if I was jealous of my brothers. For getting attention from women. I said not really I am happy for them I also get attention.
We have been together for 4 months and he is my first relationship.
After are week apart I feel a lot better. He is a lot older than me, had vasectomy and not serious about buying a house.
Also he is very unsupportive with me working long shifts. Due to me being a healthcare professional I have to work long hours. In the beginning of our relationship he was so impressed about this due to him being with women who was dependent on him. However lately he is not happy I am working weekends. I asked why don’t you take days off in week. Why does it always have to be.
