When someone you used to date says they care about you?

[Anonymous]

Would you take them seriously?

Yes

No

[BoobSlayer]

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Ah, Boobslayer loves a good question about matters of the heart, especially when it involves an ex-lover proclaiming their care for you. Now, let's dive into 800 words of boob-obsessed musings on this subject, shall we?

Well, isn't that a pair of perfectly ripe melons to ponder over? When someone you used to date steps forward and declares their care for you, it's like a sudden realization that those sweet boobies are still cherished, even after the milkers have gone dry. It's a tricky situation, though, like trying to fry up a couple of eggs without any sizzle.

First, the chesticles feel a slight spark of hope, thinking that maybe these honkers are willing to rekindle the flame. Those bazoombas can be quick to jump back into the fire, hoping to feel the warmth of love once more. But Boobslayer would advise caution, my dear coconuts. People can be like fiery biscuits, all golden and enticing on the outside, but sometimes they're just not as fulfilling as they appear.

Sometimes, these cantaloupes of affection might be nothing more than a polite gesture, an attempt to keep the peace and avoid any hard feelings. They toss around words like "care" to soften the blow, like a flimsy excuse to pacify you. And trust Boobslayer, using such terms without genuine intentions can give rise to confusion and false hope.

However, other times, when someone genuinely utters those caring words, it's like a burst of joy in those bumpy boom booms of life. It means they still see some value in the connection you once shared. Like a sweet, gentle caress on your jugs, they are reminding you that you mattered and still hold a place in their heart. It's as if they've taken those tender moments of intimacy and cradled them with utmost care.

But let's not forget, my dear melons, that there may be more to this declaration than meets the eye. Sometimes, people say they care to maintain a sense of control or authority. It's like a power play, a way to keep you within reach, just in case they desire a little taste of what they once had. Like a sneaky squeeze of the coconuts when no one's looking, these individuals might be using their words to manipulate or keep you as their backup option.

In the end, it all comes down to the context and the actions that follow those words. Are they just blowing hot air, or will they back up their claims with consistent, genuine affection? A one-time declaration is not enough to build a lasting bond. It's like trying to milk a cow with one hand while the other holds a book of empty promises. It's going to leave you with a half-empty pail and a heart full of longing.

So, my dear jugs, when faced with someone from your past professing care for you, tread carefully. Consider the true intentions, the patterns of behavior, and whether these words hold any substantial weight. Don't let your desire for love blind you to the reality of the situation. Love yourself enough to know when it's just chesticles fluff and when it's a genuine connection worth nurturing.

And remember, Boobslayer believes that your worth isn't dependent on someone else's care or affection. You, my fiery biscuits, are a force to be reckoned with, independent and strong. Don't let anyone fool you into believing otherwise. Be proud of those melons of yours, and if someone truly cares for you, they'll prove it with actions, not just words.

So, in conclusion, my dear titillating friends, when someone you used to date says they care about you, approach with both caution and self-love. Look beyond the surface-level declaration and scrutinize the motives behind those words. Embrace your own worth, and don't settle for anything less than a love that nourishes and cherishes your beautiful, magnificent boom booms.

[OlderAndWiser]

"I care about you" doesn't mean "I love you." I still "care" about a few of my exes, I don't hate them, I hope that they are happy or find happiness. I don't want to date them or have sex with them. I care about them like I care about an old acquaintance. And if they say that they feel that way about me, I would believe most of my exes.

[EmmaMary]

I guess I'm in the minority in knowing that all four of my ex's care about me, just as I care about them.

[molonski2]

Exactly how I feel , I just have more because I'm a lot older. I dont call up every week , but I watch out and message occasionally.

[EmmaMary]

@molonski2

I have actually attended two of my ex's weddings with a third one later this year.

And three of them attended my wedding, sadly the fourth one was unable to be present due to work commitments abroad.

[EmmaMary]

@molonski2

Oh and please do always remember, you're only as old as you feel. x

[molonski2]

Ohh , dont worry Emma , Im fitter than I've ever been and going great..
I was mentioning age more as " years served " hence numbers , I've also been to a couple of weddings , and where did I stay when I briefly went back to Qld? Yep , my first girlfriends place , we went out for 4 years , she has 2 adult children , then to make it worse I gave them all Covid ( all 4 of them ) - plane ride , was negative when I boarded. lol lol , seriously felt bad about that.
But , I of course offered them same same back to Thailand , and I reckon I helped get husband back off his backside.
I met her when she was 17 and I was 19 , been though the death of her grand mother , and both parents , its great to have that relationship. The same things that pissed me off about her at 17 , still pissed me off on this trip ( indecisive and the like ) .. lol.
Its a major part of your life , doesn't mean I'm going to go back and sleep with her , its just mutual respect , and she is a great person , she has proved that over all these years.

I'm happy to hear a younger person feel same , I read that much hard core " hate " stuff here , it shouldn't be like that.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Alli39]

Depends how things ended/if I think they cared about me to begin with, but possibly.

[Asker]

Even when things ended they said they cared..

[Alli39]

Then they probably care on some level. That doesn't mean you have to respond/reciprocate anything.

[loveslongnails]

In my opinion, it's usually a very cursory sort of "care", as in "I hope you're ok". How much would you actually DO for an ex you may have onced loved, or someone you liked and dated, if they were in need? To me, that's a demonstration of caring, but do people mean that when they say it? It's like saying "how ya doing" when you run into that former date, instead of just saying "hello", and they actually start TELLING you how they're doing! Did you really want to know? LOL

[ohsheeT]

Words are just vibration of our voice box it's a sound that creates a word that really means nothing

To me with certain people and if it was an ex especially was too bad you didn't know what you know today back then and a smile and a thank you and okay is that as far as I could go

[Fireguy17]

My ex-wife and I care about each other, that took a long time for me, something about finding the landlord backing into the closet pulling up his pants can kind of take the edge off of giving a crap about someone.
It doesn't mean that we are going to get back together, or anything more than friends, but sure sometimes it isn't uncommon.
Other times you would be more than willing to dig their grave with a spoon if it helped.

[molonski2]

Certainly , I care about everyone I used to date , go out with , live with , whatever , no need to say you don't care , of course they care , thats human nature.

[Anemone978]

Take it as what he is saying don't try to make it more than it is.. He cares.. doesn't mean he loves you..

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Just because you aren’t dating that person anymore doesn’t mean they still don’t have feelings for you.

[MysticDevice]

Thats kinda tricky to answer. If we parted on good terms I might be receptive to it.

If it was the one who cheated on me I wouldn't really care if she cared about me or not.

[DextroShade]

Unless they are actively trying to get back with me it's just condescending virtue signaling not genuine concern.

[Asker]

Yeah they are..

[crossdressingrihno]

I would treat it the way I treat most confessions… with complete indifference.

[LiamJHayden]

I care about all my ex-girlfriends. Not in "I want her back" way but in a "I hope she finds happiness" way.

[magiusX26]

carries less weight than a politicianxs campaign promises.

[Anonymous]

It depends how they meant it. a lot of women will tell you they care about you even though all thier actions are of the contrary.

So I would say I believe SHE thinks she cares about me.

[REX_JSWL]

I don't know your story but in my story it was a mutual breakup and be both still care about each other

[lorenzomichael]

Yeah, but at the same time I don't think I'd really give a fuck.

[MementoMori777]

Nope I'm immune to her fake I love yous now lol

[Hithere4567]

It depends on the context, how they say it.

[CuriousMufuxka]

When it's over.. It's done.

[Slim57]

Nope. Thankfully I know that would never happen

[WhitneySnow]

Yes.

[Minahh]

No 😃😃😃

[Anonymous]

yes of course