Do guys really mean it when they tell you that they care about you?

[Wowgirl10q]

Are they just trying to have sex and could really careless about you?

[nonratracereality]

Sincerity is utterly important in every union because it depicts the behavior and character of the person and that will tell you if they care because they want the non judgmental way of being accepted as a person of good. They do care but as they say actions speak louder than words and the words that are used will either resonate positive or negative emotions within yourself.

[MrOracle]

It depends on the guy, and maybe the situation. But it's not difficult to tell if it's true or not - just look at his actions and see if they match his words. A guy who really cares is going to show you through his actions and behavior, no matter what words he uses.

[Hatter3127]

This guy has the answer right here.

[Anonymous]

More often than not, they don’t mean it. But it’s not because they’re trying to get sex, since men would rather have sex with shemales or males. It’s more often when they’re trying to get a relationship so that they can fit into society.

[Clo917]

That's gonna vary by the guy. Some might try to use you, but I don't think generalizing all the billions of men of not caring is a good thing, I've met a fair amount of guys who are kind and do genuinely care.

[Logorithim]

Of course there are guys who will tell you anything, but I think most who say that mean it.

[JxrdN]

Depends on if I care about you or not. As dumb as that sounds it’s pretty much that simple. If I don’t care for you romantically but would be fine with having a sexual relationship I make that clear early on so that there is no lack of communication. What exactly am I gaining out of lying for saying that I care for you when I don’t? Your company? Because If I don’t care for you I guarantee that I wouldn’t want that either.

[Purpleronnie]

I think maturity please a big part here but still some that think they can sell anything with their charm. Saying you care and not certainly isn’t limited to guys.. I guess some folk just try and say the things you wanna hear period. Their actions speak volumes though so it doesn’t take long to see through their lies :)

[hindril]

It all deoends on the dude. I'm too Damn honest so I mean it. I was talking to a woman for a while. She kept tellibg me she loves me. She asked if I could say it back even if I don't mean it. I told her then I would be lying. I don't lie. I like her a lot but not love. She knows that too.

[Lance1965]

Depends on the guy. A lot of guys will just say what they think the woman wants to hear and will openly admit to it but to their male friends only. Meanwhile the women just eat up all their words and believe it to be true. A lot of women would be shocked what men say about them when they are at work or hanging out with their guy friends. This is something I notice a lot among guys in relationships.

[iskg679]

It depends on his actions and how well he knows you. If he has known you for a while, and you have similar personalities, it is possible that he genuinely cares about you. If he is a guy that you met very recently, then I would be cautious.

[ecfresh]

that depends on how their actions match their words. Some guys will lie to have sex, others will tell the truth and by their actions you can tell they mean it.

[DANNYKWOK]

Could be yes could be no. Only you can feel it and know if he just want sex or truly care about you.

[bizmarkee]

I use that line when I really don't want a relationship and want to have sex. So yeah, I really care about really means let's get it on.

[TonyMetal86]

When they care about you, you don't care about them...

Do WOMEN really mean it when they tell you that they care about you?

[SngBirdy]

Im pretty sure in most cases its the truth. Even assholes dont feel comfortable lying about something like that

[RIVERTAY888]

Well l do mean it from my heart and soul l dont want the girl for just sex l wish to have all of the girl in my life and to love all of her and always care and respect the girl for the girl she is not all guys are the same

[joebbray1829]

Depends on the guy because well as you can see a lot of people lie to get what they want but some are actually genuine so the best thing you can do is just look for signs, don't give them what they want and see if they still stick around

[UnkownTraveler]

Really depends on the guy. I'd say, go with your feeling

[Myk13]

That one’s pretty general. I think it’s split 60/40. 60% mean it and really do care. While 40% just want to do the wild monkey dance with you.

[Clarke498]

Can people stop asking these questions? Like every guy operates from the same brain? It's driving me crazy. It's like me writing "do girls mean it when they say they care?" It's just sexist.

[Philyouup]

Well isn’t that the $20000 question? If he’s professing that he cares about you, I’m assuming we already got past the bedding stage. If not, then actions speak louder that words.

[HalfASoap]

Anyone can say that, more often than not it's insincere. You have to see if their actions back it up.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

If i tell a girl i care about her i really mean it with all my heart, mind, soul.

[ChocolateCheesecake]

Depends on what he's after or if he's a genuine person

[savvy1225]

Actions show more than words, if he shows you that he cares, he does.

[betbot]

It depends on each individual person. I know that I care but I know some guys who really don't. And I know women who both care and don't at the same time. So in my opinion it depends on the individual person.

[LegateLanius]

Words mean nothing a lot of the time. See what they do in addition to those words. Their follow up.

[unomilkis1]

Some guys yes, some guys no, wonders never cease :')

[worldscolide]

Depends on the guy... Personally i never say anything i dont mean when it comes to stuff like that.

[pleasestopthis]

Some guys really mean it, but a lot of guys just say anything to get into a woman's pants.

[mellowman]

Observe how he treats others he says that to or about. Then you will know.

[chrisbigman]

It depends on the individual guy. Some do, some don't.

[Anonymous]

No, it's all a conspiracy. No guy would ever mean that... We've all been trained from birth to never show emotion and always lie to the woman we care about.

[BonnieBunny]

Don't ever talk to me again! I can't believe you did that to me!!

[EmotionOfFear]

Most of the time no, unless it's a relationship of a year and a half +longer

[grega239]

i do. if i dont i say nothing or make it clear that i dont care

[Anonymous]

It depends on the guy but tbh sometimes they might be using someone for sex

[Glen68]

Assholes who only care about themselves lie about that stuff

[Anonymous]

My guess would be the guys that tell YOU they care about you don't.

[Anonymous]

I feel like in most cases, they mean it. Not all guys are as shallow as we're made out to be.

[BluesheepOwl]

Some do and some dont. It's a 50/50 thing

[Cookie8888]

Most do
Some dicks don't

[Anonymous]

They mean it when they prove it.

[clampfan101]

Not all men are demons. :/

[Pandora91]

I mean it when I say it

[Moezan]

I don't know about other dudes but yes for me

[LordPK20797]

Depends on the guy. I normally say what I mean

[TsubasaCorrupted]

It depends on the guy.

[judgejules]

Depends on the guy or the situation.

[Halucinator]

If it’s during sex, no😂

[Poormanscomedian]

A lot of males would.

[minedawson]

It all depends on the guy

[BellumEtPacem]

It varies by the person.

[Butchiew56]

I can only speak for myself, yes I mean it!

[Eryxx]

Lol not always.

[Gottabsavagee]

Usually they do

[Exterminatore]

Depends on the guy.

[Anonymous]

Some do some don't

[Secretgardenblood]

I guess no

[motownplayer2000]

Usually

[Razal]

Well most guys do.