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If guys ALWAYS chase the woman they really like, does it mean no one has ever really liked me?

So everywhere I look, everyone says that if a guy really wants you, if he really likes you, he will find a way to let you know. But I have never had a guy chase me. Ever.

I’ve only had 2 relationships in my life and with both of them I could tell they liked me, but I had to make the first move. The second ended in marriage which ended in divorce. I’ve been single for 4 years now and even though some guys will show some interest, they either just want to play games or hook up and none have actually wanted to have a relationship with me.

I’m told I’m really pretty and I have a good figure. I’m told that I’m fun, friendly and I’m kind. Plus I really do laugh and smile a lot. I will talk to anyone and I am approachable. But whenever a guy does show interest it’s only to play games or just to hook up, and non of them have actively perused me. I genuinely don’t act desperate or throw myself at men, but I’m just never quite good enough. I was breadcrumbed once so now I will only chat with them for a bit, but if it doesn’t seem to be going anywhere I politely end the conversation. None of those guys have objected to that so I can only think they weren’t really interested in the first place. Either that or I think we’re getting along and they just ghost me.

Can anyone suggest what it is I might be doing so wrong that no man is attracted to me?

If guys ALWAYS chase the woman they really like, does it mean no one has ever really liked me?
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