So everywhere I look, everyone says that if a guy really wants you, if he really likes you, he will find a way to let you know. But I have never had a guy chase me. Ever.
I’ve only had 2 relationships in my life and with both of them I could tell they liked me, but I had to make the first move. The second ended in marriage which ended in divorce. I’ve been single for 4 years now and even though some guys will show some interest, they either just want to play games or hook up and none have actually wanted to have a relationship with me.
I’m told I’m really pretty and I have a good figure. I’m told that I’m fun, friendly and I’m kind. Plus I really do laugh and smile a lot. I will talk to anyone and I am approachable. But whenever a guy does show interest it’s only to play games or just to hook up, and non of them have actively perused me. I genuinely don’t act desperate or throw myself at men, but I’m just never quite good enough. I was breadcrumbed once so now I will only chat with them for a bit, but if it doesn’t seem to be going anywhere I politely end the conversation. None of those guys have objected to that so I can only think they weren’t really interested in the first place. Either that or I think we’re getting along and they just ghost me.
Can anyone suggest what it is I might be doing so wrong that no man is attracted to me?
